Hello all. Ok, Here's the problem. My g/f and I are fine, we both have a good sex life, and nothing has ever come up as a problem... except lately. Basically wether it's sex, or fingering her, sooner or later as we get into it, she has to get up and go to the bathroom. And no, it's not a simple case of going before hand. She'll go before, and then have to again while doing it. She wondered if it might just be that sensation, and not acctually having to go at all.. But I can't see that being possible, and I certainly don't want to test that theory.

Could she just have a small bladder? Or is there something else that could be wrong? She's going to the doctors in a while to ask about this. If any of you have an idea of what the problem is, then please let me know. Thanks.

[G-Prime]

Its her building up for an orgasm. When she lets go she'll explode in a transcendental wave of carnal pleasure.

She may be trying to ejaculate.

Let me clarify, because I know that a female ejaculating is an impossible and horrible situation for many of you *cough*noobs*cough*.

Through certain stimulations, which may differ from girl to girl, at the peak of an orgasm, or quit possibly right after it, a woman can ejaculate a clear fluid from her urethra.

This fluid is not urin. It is the fluid that causes the urethral sponge (g-spot) to swell when the female is aroused. The taste and smell of this liqiud will vary as often as the taste and smell of the girl's vagina does.

When she is about to expel, or ejaculate, this fluid, it may feel like she is going to urinate. You can be quite assured that she will not.

Enough of the technical mumbo jumbo.

My personal experience with female ejaculation is as follows: my ex-ex-girlfriend and I had a very open sexual relationship, and after reading about female ejaculation I very much wanted to see it for myself, the only problem was that I didn't really know how to stimulate her into doing so.

But one day she told me that she had squirted a clean fluid, which didn't smell like urin, after masterbating. I was untrigued and asked her how she did it. She said that after her orgasm peaked she just kept stimulating her clit with her vibrator (which I bought her btw).

Usually at that point when I would go down on her she would stop me. She explained the reason for this being that she felt like she was going to piss.

The next time I went down on her, I tried this technique, after assuring her that it was totaly ok and that I really wanted to try it. Success! By continuing to gently stimulate her clitorus after she peaked I managed to make her ejaculate. The taste of the fluid very much like that of her actual vagina, although it varied quite a bit on other occasions where I had managed to make her ejaculate.

I tried this technique with my next girlfriend, but it only made her orgasm again. Darn .

Anyways, after that looong explanation of my knowlege and experience with female ejaculation, I think that you should try experimenting with this "sensation" of hers. At worse, she'll pee on you; but I doubt it. Experiment, go wild. And remember to bring a towel .

[This message has been edited by Little Pea (edited 04-19-2004).]

Maybe your accidently putting pressure on her bladder? Its happened to some people I know when they have been having sex...

Hmm.. Ok thanks to all of you. Yeah the worst that could happen is she'd piss. It could be pressure on her bladder, but that seems unlikely since it's just me on top and we're not doing too advanced right now. It's always possible though.. Anyways if you have anythin to add, please do so. I'll keep an eye on this thread for a little longer. Thanks again guys! L8r

Well, in my experience it has to do with slipping your finger inside and rubbing her g-spot.

Easy way is to get her to lay on her back, then finger her with your palm facing upwards, and curl your middle finger upwards and towards you. Feel around for a bit till she tells you she feels a weird pressure sensation around that area, that's the g-spot.

So rub or press that while sucking on her clit and she should start getting the urge to urinate, then she should ejaculate when she cums.

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*Guy goes down on girl and brings her close to orgasm*

girl: "Oh i think i need to pee"

guy: "oh dont worry honey you dont need a piss its just you ejaculating... Ill just carry on shal-"

*WHOOOOOOOOSH!*

I read this several times, and I could still have missed it, but does she actually expel urine when she gets up to go? If she isn't, but feels like she needs to go, then any of the above posts could be considered, as well as a doctor's visit.

If she IS expelling urine, well, obviously she had to go! Women have much smaller bladders than men; if I drink the recommended daily "8 glasses of water" I'm in the bathroom all the time.

hmm.. well thanks Deadlycindy. Yes she urinates when she feels like she has to, so that I guess is out of the question.. Still.. it's very frustrating when I can't make her orgasm because she has to go before I can get her there..

could be two things: bladder irritation from a urinary tract infection (symptoms include peeing frequently but small volumes), and bladder irritation from too much sex "honey moon cystitis".

the other possibility is more insidious, some women get extreme bladder irritation in response to emotional stress and this is very hard to treat.

^^^^Hmm.. well she HAS been a bit stressed with her mom/work.. that could be it. As to a urinary tract infection.. no. She would know if it were. Anyways thanks for the info.. you may have something there..

This seems pretty simple. Does she pee a lot normally? If not, it could be the ejaculation thing. If so, it's just a small bladder.

^^Umm.. no it's not simple.. She only has to go this frequently when we have sex, or something to that extent. And no it's not pressure on her bladder, because she knows that feeling, and she doesn't get it unless I try to hit her bladder.

Right. The simple part is figuring out that it's not that she has a small bladder. If this only happens while doing a certain activity, you know that it's not just that the girl has to pee a lot.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Right. The simple part is figuring out that it's not that she has a small bladder. If this only happens while doing a certain activity, you know that it's not just that the girl has to pee a lot.

We already came to that conclusion... Maybe you missed that somewhere. Anyways now i'm trying to figure out what else it could be.

Maybe you have a small dick and are sticking your cock into her piss hole and tickling her bladder which is making her wanna piss ?? hehehe JK

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

of you *cough*noobs*cough*.

now try to show that you really know something and give me the name of the glands ...

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Women have much smaller bladders than men

sure? I thought it was the fact that women are unable to empty their bladder completely.

quote:Originally posted by [G-Prime]:

^^^^Hmm.. well she HAS been a bit stressed with her mom/work.. that could be it. As to a urinary tract infection.. no. She would know if it were. Anyways thanks for the info.. you may have something there..

....Sorry but how would she know? UTI's are not always fever/pain on peeing/cloudy urine. Sometimes it's just that- going pee often and in small volumes. Hope her doctor tests her urine for an infection. They are infinitely easier to treat than the stress thing.

^^^You just answered your own question. She has none of the symptoms. I never said pain and fever were the only noticable things. It's pretty obvious when you all of a sudden have to go to the bathroom several times a day, usually in small amounts. Trust me, she'd know.

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

Maybe you have a small dick and are sticking your cock into her piss hole and tickling her bladder which is making her wanna piss ?? hehehe JK

As for you.. I doubt you can have a small dick and be "tickling" her bladder. ass

"she should ejaculate when she cums."

uh, does this comment make anyone else want to smack the author?

quote:Originally posted by BSK:

[B] now try to show that you really know something and give me the name of the glands ...B]

The paraurethral glands, otherwise known as Skete's glands. Although admittedly I didn't know them. I've seem the info on the before, but I had to look through the female ejaculation section of Pucker Up to find them and then I cross referenced with my anatomy book. Good stuff.

so why do you dare to call other people names, if you even don´t get the right result. Because of their function they were renamed. Starts with "prostata" ...

quote:Originally posted by BSK:

so why do you dare to call other people names, if you even don´t get the right result. Because of their function they were renamed. Starts with "prostata" ...

Oh, I'm sorry. I'm just using the most up-to-date anatomy text book to get my information. OOPS! I googled prostata and didn't get any results of the word, other than some giberish in some forein language. I think that you are the one that can't get acurate results. Ass.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

I'm just using the most up-to-date anatomy text book to get my information.

link number 2. (http://www.google.de/search?q=prostata+glands&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=com&meta=)

http://www.totse.com/bbs/smile.gif (http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2002/10/04/1033538774095.html)

HAHAHA, that means that every girl can "squirt"!!!!!

quote:Originally posted by BSK:

link number 2. (http://www.google.de/search?q=prostata+glands&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=com&meta=)

http://www.totse.com/bbs/smile.gif (http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2002/10/04/1033538774095.html)

"...an area in the female body known as Skene's glands, or the para-urethral glands..."

We we both right on this one, although I have no idea why they'd compare the Skene's glands to the prostate since all they do is secrete mucus into the urethra while the prostate is an important gland in the production of semen. Whatever.

Ok guys, We figured it out. (just decided to go for it) and she didn't piss or anything, and of course orgasmed. So thank you all for your help I don't know what I'd do without totse L8r guys

Happens to me all the time, wheather I am pleasuring myself or if my boyfriend is helping me out. I just always have to pee after orgasm, and sometimes before I reach that point. I don't know why, but I thought maybe it would help knowing that your gilfriend is not the only one experiencing this inconvience (sp).

[This message has been edited by Celina (edited 04-25-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by Celina:

Happens to me all the time, wheather I am pleasuring myself or if my boyfriend is helping me out. I just always have to pee after orgasm, and sometimes before I reach that point. I don't know why, but I thought maybe it would help knowing that your gilfriend is not the only one experiencing this inconvience (sp).



Yeah, it does help. But since we went all the way, and I made her orgasm, I'm very pleased So now there's nothing to worry about with that

[This message has been edited by Celina (edited 04-25-2004).]