A girl who lives down the street just moved in like a month ago. Last night was the first night I talked to her and we drove around with some other friends. I think I might have a chance with her, besides the age difference (im 15, 16 in 2 months and shes 17), but she also likes my other friend. Both of us guys are more the mellow type but I can just tell shes more interested in him than me. Once that happends should you persist when theyre together or act like you dont care. I just acted the same and like it didnt bother me. My friend isnt even that aggressive she just goes to him. I have her in two classes so ill definately talk to her, but should I just talk talk or should I still try and pull something... I was also on E last night so I was a bit more talky, but it doesnt matter.

Don't try and make friends with her, tell her your interested in being more than friends. Always tell a lady how your feeling, worst that can happen is they'll walk away. As my friend once said: quote:Past is the past, nothing you can do to change it. So, while you still can, put your pride aside, and just go for it, or else you might spend the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you'd been a bit more aggressive about it. Hell, the girl I met in bio class (I'll refer to her a lot, her name is Brittania, Britt for short), I've asked her out 3 times, and she knows exactly how I feel about her, and we are still good friends. You never know, you just gotta (pardon the religous talk, I'm a religous kinda guy (ms on religous?)) put your faith in God, and hope that it was meant to happen. If it was, then it will, otherwise, it won't. Anyway, end of my rave!

--The Student

Thanks for the reply. I understand what you mean. I don't really want to think about marrying her though, just hooking up and hanging out and stuff. Its something I could use (Having a close female person). And Im also confused about my friend. I guess Ill see what goes.

If she seems to dig your friend more, chill. You sound as though you'd be content simply hanging with her in whatever capacity, so if they hook up, just make sure they get out of the house and do shit with you and whoever else. Something may happen between you two over time, or it may not; but if you spend enough time together, then what should happen will happen, and that's all you can ask for.