Ok so i've got this embarrasing problem. No matter what, Im always too shy to ask a girl out or to tell her I like her. I have no problem talking to girls in general, it's just when it comes to things like dating and stuff, im shy. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Tnx

You know, other people have posted this exact same topic, in this exact same forum, since the opening of the forum itself... That being said, try gaining to attention of a girl who's more likely to take the initiative. A girl that will most likely put the move on "you", before you can put the move on her. From there, you'll gain some confidence around the oppisite sex, maybe even get some good experience relationship-wise.

If you're wondering how to get that sort of girl's attention, do the normal "guy" things. Excersise, play sports, etc. Also, if you dress to match your appearance, and take good care of your self, i.e good hygiene, nice hair. , you'll gain extra points. It's really not that complicated.

And when I mention a girl who "makes the first move", I'm not referring to the kind that gets passed around like a scone on a sunday in England, I mean more of a girl who's confident and aware of who she is. The kind of girl anyone would like to date, in my opinion.

Well man i had the same problem, ask cindy and a123x... I know trippin on mescaline really helped me to build confidance in myself. And the right girl really helps, but man you gotta just do it, once you do it, its gonna not be such a big deal anymore.

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Sorry to hear that Samurai guy. I have the same problem, but it aint just girls it's everyone. Severe inferiority complex, even tho I know I'm a top geez.

I have a few suggestions that may work.

1: Meditate to help train your focus. Which will help you to:

2: Think positively. Practice believing that you can do the things you fear. Maybe in bed at night. Play an imaginary scene in your head where you chat up girls and make them laff etc. In theory this gradually convinces your mind that you can do the things that you fear.

and 3: Go out and confront your fear. Learn humility. Those who aren't afraid of being humiliated can do so much more.

Thanks a whole lot guys