Alright i'm about to have sex with this girl for the first time and she's a virgin. She's pretty much telling me its gonna hurt her no matter what. Is this true? If i've fingered her a bunch of times and she's stretched out would it still hurt her anyway?

It will hurt her, but there's no telling how much. Sometimes a little, sometimes a ton. Good luck.

Tell her you have a small dick...

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yeah, it will. Check out the Deflowering thread for a lil more info.

It will more than likely hurt unless

A-you're really gentle, or

B-You get her drunk and drugged.

there should be a archive file made for this topic

Didn't hurt me at all. No pain whatsoever, only pleasure. Bodies vary. I was 15.

I imagine that young women who can use tampons of any size comfortably (especially non-applicator tampons, which require a lot of knowledge of one's body) would experience the least pain. Also, the longer she's been having sexual relations (though not intercourse) the more her body may be ready for intercourse.

True desire, comfort and passion go a long way toward pain-free sexual interourse. If she's the least bit uncertain, or uncomfortable with the surroundings, or anxious, or afraid, up goes the potential for pain.

^--- cock whore

lol jk

Damn that wasn't as funny typed out as it was in my head. Oh well.

or astroglide...

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I was 13 and it didn't hurt at all.

Awesome

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

...Also, the longer she's been having sexual relations (though not intercourse) the more her body may be ready for intercourse...

That's what I figure. Sex is a big step, so taking time on previous step is essential.

It hurt me. And he was the two-inch wonder.

Seriously.

if it does hurt then its supposed to be a 'nice' hurt otherwise YOU DID IT WRONG! she was'nt ready either mentally (ie.did not want you enough or feel secure enough) and or physically(ie.not wet/loosened up enough).

its your responsiblity as the man to make sure it does'nt hurt ....if you get it real right then her hymen tearing will make her come.

If only ever man knew that.

^men do know -boys don't!

Your right, I stand corrected.

there is this thing called a hymen.

a small piece of skin that partially/totally covers the vaginal opening. Some girls dont have one at all, while others have a really thick one.

No amount of forplay (unless you penetrate and break it) will make her 'ready'. It will 'pop' when you stick your dick in her.

Not to say that this is with all girls, even ones that use tampons. Some girls break theirs by doing exercise or masturbation.

I used tampons regularly as a virgin, yet it hurt and i bled like a pig once the deed was done... It was my hymen, not lack of arousal

In summation, all girls are different. For some it hurts others it doesnt. The main point is to be sensitive to her needs and communicate with her.