Okay... Me and my boyfriend went to have sex and he was fingering me and everything and I ripped(I'm not sure if it ripped when he was fingering me or when he tried to put it in. It didn't go in all the way though)I went to go to the bathroom later that day and I started to bleed. It wasn't a lot of blood but it was still blood. I am wondering if it is going to rip more or what. It hurt but not all that bad but I am afraid that it is going to hurt a whole lot worse when we actually have sex. What does everyone think? Has anyone had this experience? (I'm sure quite a lot have but just curious)

quote:Originally posted by Someone21special:

Okay... Me and my boyfriend went to have sex and he was fingering me and everything and I ripped(I'm not sure if it ripped when he was fingering me or when he tried to put it in. It didn't go in all the way though)I went to go to the bathroom later that day and I started to bleed. It wasn't a lot of blood but it was still blood. I am wondering if it is going to rip more or what. It hurt but not all that bad but I am afraid that it is going to hurt a whole lot worse when we actually have sex. What does everyone think? Has anyone had this experience? (I'm sure quite a lot have but just curious)

Is this your first time? It sounds like you just broke your hymen. Most girls bleed a little the first time they have sex.

I haven't had sex yet because it didn't go in. But if it was to of gone in it would have been my first time.

If your quite young it could be also down to the size of yours and his anatomy. If he's large theres more chance of a bad bleed. don't worry most girls do wen they are losing their v-plates too.

The hymen can be broken without penetration, actually. That may have been "it".

you broke it, it's done, you really don't have to be that deep for it to break. prolly won't bleed more, depends tho. don't worry about it, just have a towel under ya just in case.

Ouch

How old are you ?

Ain't love a bitch? Haha... he "popped your cherry" so to speak. Make sure he takes it easy on you and communicate to him if it's getting beyond acceptable pain levels. If you go too hard and heavy it's not going to be a good experience.

quote:Originally posted by Dago_81:

Ouch

How old are you ?

I am 15