Ok well my boyfriend and I were talking and we decided that we want to have sex. I am totally ok with that. We have open campus at our school so at lunch we are going to go to his house. I am a virgin.Will I be able to go back to school after we have sex? Or will it hurt to bad?

.:*Someone...Special*:.

What a bad idea. Dont do it at lunch. GAH wait till you have a lot of time to yourselves.

Do it behind the bike-shed so you don't have to waste time with travel.

yeah, dont do it at lunch. wait till night time and get some nice wine, and candles and stuff. make it mind numbingly romantic.

in my own experience first time having sex is sorta like a first kiss. its important at the time but after a while you forget who it was with. thats just me though.

yes you can go back to school after it, no i wouldn't advice it (i remember my girl afterwards)

and why don't you just take your time

It very well could hurt too much. You should wait until you'll have plenty of recovery time. Save the lunchtime shag for when you're used to it and can have a quickie that's reasonably quick.

quote:Originally posted by Someone21special:

Ok well my boyfriend and I were talking and we decided that we want to have sex. I am totally ok with that. We have open campus at our school so at lunch we are going to go to his house. I am a virgin.Will I be able to go back to school after we have sex? Or will it hurt to bad?

.:*Someone...Special*:.

To me this implies that "we" are two guys, in which case it's gonna hurt quite a bit for the bottom if your nervous, so I'd say do I on a weekend sometime. If I misunderstood and your a chick, well then I cant help you, sorry.

We implies the couple... not 2 guys

-warweed12

just cum to my house ill show u how to do it, and what it feels like Aight?



-tAs-

Your first time is special. No matter how you put it, it's your only first time, so why would you not want it to be special. A quickie at lunch isn't special at all.

I would venture to guess that it would not hurt so bad as to not go back to school, but you might be rather uncomfortable.

Another thing you might have to worry about is emotional change. After having sex your first time, it would be nice to have him there to cuddle and be close. Without that, you will probably end up feeling upset, along with the upset of losing your virginity, so I would be more worried about that.

Well... I didn't get to read most of these until after school and we tried to have sex but he wouldn't fit he was too big. I know it should be special but I mean as long as I'm with the right person it doesn't matter how long it is or where it is at. I am with the right person and thats what my heart tells me so therefore it is special to me. YES I AM A CHICK!

quote:we tried to have sex but he wouldn't fit he was too big.

thats so funny... I dont mean to be insensitive but you do realise that babies come out of there? You need to take your time and use lubricant if you dont naturally produce enough yourself.

It is tight at first, especially if you have a well formed hymen. Even with this tho sex is not impossible.

Take your time and practice when you have hours and hours to play.

First off, you shouldn't be having such a tight time frame on loosing your virginity, as was made clear by many of the other posters. You could just cut school you know; but whatever.

As for the pain, depending on how it goes, you could be a little sore to barely being able to walk. Depends on how big the guy is and how the process goes. See the thread about "deflowering" for some tips on that.

Atypicalstudent, despite the rightness of you're you can get it to fit with time and patience, you were totally wrong in the first statement.

Babies can come out of a woman because of hormones which are released at the end of pregnancy to dialate the cervix. The fact that a baby can get through is totally irrelevant.

Sorry, but it just gets to me when people say that.