Ime planing to write a letter to my ex to oppoligise for somethink stupid i did (wont go into details), but i dont know if she would appresheate this or just find it wierd?

So ladies how would you feel wakeing up looking in your mail box and finding a hand writen oppligie from an ex?

In this letter ime pritty much kissing ass, but do you think she would find this wierd or do you think she would find it sweet.

Will this help?Because she wont talk to me at the moment,thats why ime writing a letter and not calling her.

So what do you think?

make sure you finish the letter with "PS. APRIL FOOLS. i really think your a vomiting hill troll and i dont want you back...ever..."

then she'll love you again.

This isent a letter trying to grt her to go back out with me its just to say sorry for the stupid shit i did.

If the stupid thing was done during the relationship, no letter should be sent, the break up includes all stupid things. If you did it post break up, an apology is nice

Come on i need some responses here, so far i am still going to sent the letter,and just hope for the best.

I think you just miss her and want to hook up. Dont sent the letter shell think your desprate.

Like Greenlantern said, if you did that stupid shit during the relationship there's no need to apologise (she broke up with you for it) but if you shat on her puppy because you were angry with her after maybe you should apologise.

I would probably cry (out of happiness that is) and go crawling back to said ex.

Well, probably not. But as long as its not a cry for ass or anything, it's a pleasent gesture.

I'd say do it, what's the worst that could happen?

If it's sincere, something that can realistically be apologized for (ie. NOT cheating), and it's been long enough for any pissed-off feelings on her part to subside, then there's not much which can go wrong. At worst, it's wasted effort.

If any of the above conditions are not met, then anything's possible.

if u do decide to send the letter.... make sure u use correct grammar and spelling, kapeish?

-tAs-

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

...but if you shat on her puppy because you were angry with her after maybe you should apologise.

LMFAO!!! That's the best response so far. I heartily agree!

quote:if u do decide to send the letter.... make sure u use correct grammar and spelling, kapeish?

The only problem with that is that your spelling is almost as bad as his.

The sentiment, however: Right on!

If she is still speaking to you, then it is okay if that is what you want to do. If she is avoiding you, then let her be.

There's nothing bad about wanting to right a wrong. If you did 'stupid shit' to her and want to apologize for it then go for it. It will probably allow her to walk away from the relationship with better closure. My instinct tells me you're doing it more for absolving your own guilt.

Either way, it's not going to hurt.

You have nothing to lose man, I say do it. Dont kiss her ass, just say I really am truley sorry for sticking my dick in your mouth while you were sleeping. Or whatever DO IT!

Ime getting a real mixed response here, and i have'ent posted the letter yet,but i do want to coz i feel like an asshole for what i did but we havent even talked in over a week, wont this seem kind of random?

[This message has been edited by casperc (edited 04-14-2004).]