Im not talking about a fuck fuck here and a fuck fuck there here a fuck there a fuck everywhere a fuck fuck.

No I mean passionatly make love together with someone you really care about?

I dont like fucking to much, IDK its fucking overrated and condoms are tight ( the bad kinda tight)

I know I havent, whats it like?

edit again ( i love giving oral sex)

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For me it's the best, every once and a while you need just to fuck but most of the time I prefer to make love.

There's something to making love that you can't get from just fucking.

It's better and means more than anything. *sigh*

I haven't, in a long time. Out of my 17 total sex partners, only one ever provided me with that.

Sometimes it seems right to make some sweet love, others it's time to have a rough fuck, so a little bit of both.

i admit, never.

i have had some great sex, and visually beautiful sex (does that make sense?), and take-your-time sex, but not true shared love.

which just goes to show that there is always something to look forward to...

Yes I do make love. It is the best feeling ever. Only one person out of at least 20 other people has done that for me, and I'm still with her.

i admit out of the many many partners and people i have slept with there was only 1 person that i actually pasionatly made love to..

it is the most special thing in the world and i think there is only really one person that you can really make love to the rest are just what you think you are making love..

it goes way beyound sex by any means..

it is a connections of thoughts and emotions and feelings.. and a expresstion of your love of one another.. it's hard to explain your time will come young grasshoppa

I have...and goddamn it was good. Gotta be the best sex I've ever had. It was just so fufilling on so many levels.

"Young grasshoppa"? Aren't you about 16, Warweed?

never have, never will. i could never like someone who wanted to "make love" or somesuch pussy shit. its a fuck, regardless of feelings.

Not me, yet. I've "Made Lust" before though.

no

Yes. I have.

*preparing to be flamed*

My husband *pleases hold you boos and hissed until the end of the program* is the only person I've ever made love to. The other men I've slept with was purely a sex thing.

I've found out, though, that in order to "make love," you have to truly LOVE another person. I don't mean be IN LOVE. Love is not a feeling but an action. You have to truly want to make the other person happy and satisfied and confident and just in general feel good, disregarding your own wants and needs. And if that person feels the same way about you, and truly wants to make you happy, etc, etc, THEN you will make love.

I've also found, that most people I've talked to realized that they didn't find that special relationship until they were married. My husband and I had sex before we were married. A LOT of sex. In fact, we have my daughter for that reason, lol. But it wasn't until about three or four months after we were married that we made love for the first time. And I'm here to tell you that having experienced both (making love and a straight fuck), I'll never go back to just fucking again.

There's also the fact that marriage is the only relationship I've found that can support a sexual relationship without residual concerns and/or hard feelings, but that's a topic for another thread.

Bravo Christy's Girl! Well put.

There's something to be said about that ultimate love and trust. To see that feeling reflected in your partner's eyes...

Those who haven't experienced it are truly missing out. Seriously.

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There's something to be said about that ultimate love and trust. To see that feeling reflected in your partner's eyes...

Those who haven't experienced it are truly missing out. Seriously.

I agree.

Since I'm with a guy I'll likely spend the rest of my life with, I'd say "making love" with or "fucking" someone you truly love is the best sex ever.

It means having sex whenever you want it, yet it still somehow feels spontaneous and different. It means having enough familiarity and mutual comfort to say/get excited by hearing "suck my dick, bitch". It means getting eaten out when I'm not at my "freshest" because he thinks he might die if he can't do it right now. And stuff like that.

Good stuff.

I've made love before.

But, it really is indescribeable.

It's more like you're enjoying being so close to this person so much that that's all you want to do: prolong the awesome experience. So, it's soft, slow, passionate, and fast, whatever to make it excellent for the longest period of time.

And afterwards you feel like you had a million whole body orgasms.

It's pretty fucken awesome.

Cheers,

Lost

I have made love to one girl and had sex with only one girl. it was on our one year anniversary and was the best feeling ever. I think that my body is for her only.

I have, a few times with the only girl I've ever had sex with. We had a lot of fucking too though.

I'm withdrawing and actually becoming content with my current lack of sex, because I'm getting to where I don't want it if it doesn't mean something.

However, you'd think that the person who wrote this (http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum31/HTML/001608.html) would be all for meaningless fucking. I'm slowly turning into one fucking big contradiction.

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My best friend said there is no difference between making love and fucking...but i think differently...I said that making love is something between the people in a emountial connection...anyone have any better words to state this in?

The word "love" is in "making love" for a reason.

It's not terribly detailed, but when trying to explain the indescribable, you might as well keep it short. It's not going to make sense to someone who doesn't get it no matter what you say.

Damn! This is the most depressing thread I've ever read on Totse. I am literally in tears. What the fuck?! I wish my wife were still alive so bad... sorry, I'm done. -jeff