Yea...so..

My girlfriend that I've been goin out with for about a month now has a lack of showing her affection for me. We've kissed and she didn't hesitate it or anything. She wanted to. It's just now she wont show it. Should I just do it and she will back or what...?

Try again.

Try what? Just go for things and it'll all work out?

I actually have this exact same problem with my girlfriend. Its hard to tell what exactly she wants. if she wants more or less or if she's comfortable where we're at. I just talked to her about it, we are able to talk about those things easily. I just told her to hint if she wants it just by flirting more or even just doing it all herself. It seems logical to me but it may just be different depending on the circumstance. simple stuff...

She wants a friend more than anything. That kiss was her way of getting your attention. If you can't be that person just say fuck it.

I have this problem too, but im the bastard that wont show affection, i hope i get one more chance to...

~H

quote:Originally posted by Krazycalves88:

I actually have this exact same problem with my girlfriend. Its hard to tell what exactly she wants. if she wants more or less or if she's comfortable where we're at. I just talked to her about it, we are able to talk about those things easily. I just told her to hint if she wants it just by flirting more or even just doing it all herself. It seems logical to me but it may just be different depending on the circumstance. simple stuff...

This is the one that will help me a lot, thanks man. Yeah, we can talk about it easily and stuff. Oh shit, im goin to her house today too. Today will be interesting.