I have been going out with my girlfriend (2 years younger than me in grade 10) for 2 months and I think I love her.. no... I DO love her. But we have never expressed these feelings before. Ladies especially... and men with experience.. are "I love you" the words she WANTS to hear if she really cares about me or not? Should I just tell her how I feel? in order to increase my chances of makign love with her, and increasing our relationship to a deeper level? Basically is this what she WANTS to hear, and should I do it? thanx for the input!

Judging from your previous topic, if she wants you to be her first she probably feels the same way.

If you think that's the case, then tell her.

quote:Originally posted by Der_Kommunistische_Leiter:

I have been going out with my girlfriend (2 years younger than me in grade 10) for 2 months and I think I love her.. no... I DO love her. But we have never expressed these feelings before. Ladies especially... and men with experience.. are "I love you" the words she WANTS to hear if she really cares about me or not? Should I just tell her how I feel? in order to increase my chances of makign love with her, and increasing our relationship to a deeper level? Basically is this what she WANTS to hear, and should I do it? thanx for the input!

Well, do not tell her you love her if you do not mean it, if you are trying to get her to have sex with you, or just becasue you think that what she wants to hear. But if this is how you truly feel and want her to know how you feel, then by all means say it.

Since you started off saying you think you love her, and than you do I`m guessing youre unsure. Not all girls want want to hear you say I LOVE YOU, just tell her you care for her very much, and tell her what you feel.

dont listent to not-all here she is just a dirty slut that sleeps with brothers, and is soon going to India to become a hooker and make alot of money since she does not want to suck her ex bf dick. the bitch is all mad becuase she gets her ass woop by a pirate.

dont tell a girl u luv her unless shes your wife.

Disregard greyhat7's comments. We're adjusting his medication.

I agree with not_ all_here that the best approach might be to start with the "I really care about you", "You mean a lot to me" sort of stuff.

Never say you love her at your age. Express but never say it. That way when you eventually break up, as do all relationships when your young, when you argue, you can remind her that you never actually said, "I Love You." It really pisses girls off.

If I were you I'd hold out on saying the "L" word. You may be confusing love with lust. Actually, you probably are confusing love with lust. Don't get any misconceptions about lust. Lust doesn't neccessarily mean that when you're horny you think that you love her, although you most likely do. It just means that you are mixing up your phisical connection with your mental connection.

I would seriously just bite my tounge on that one man. You'd be saving yourself a lot of trouble.

lordsjohnson is just a cockgobbler, just thought I point that out. and yea I agree with the last comment dont tell a girl you luv her so u can piss her off when u break off with her.

Tell her what you really feel.

Personally i would tell her, the way i see it, it will only make the relationship stronger unless it scares her away but as you have been together so long i doubt that will happen.

Good luck with whatever happens.

Ok, ignore what i just said. I didn't read your post properly.

She is way to young to hear that "you lover her", maybe in 2 years but not now. Also i thought you had been together more than 2 months, so it could scare her away.

Hm..

Some girls need validation with these words.

Other girls like to test men and see if they'll collapse under the pressure to see if they are worthy of the chick.

It really depends what kind of relationship you have with her. If you are the really close cuddly type, I don't think it would hurt.

But if your the "Give the girl your balls as a present to try to win her affection, and the woman controls everything" then you might wanna mess with her head a bit. It my not sound right now, but this is how you pass this test that she may be giving you.

-rage

although you think she wants to hear it, and she might, i wouldn't suggest it, it's usually a bit of a shock when someone says it ... i for one have held my tongue every time i thought/felt i should say those three little words, cuz i figured and know that it was mostly my hormones fucking with my head ... only one person has ever said it to me and i said it back cuz i blanked, and i shouldn't have cuz i later realized i didn't mean it. so basically 2 months? she's in 10th grade? i say hold off on saying it until you get really serious like prolly 6 months - 1 year depending on your relationship. like lordsjohnson said, tell her you care about her and everything and show how you feel but just wait on the big L.