I'm 16 never had a girlfriend. Every girl I have ever asked out has turned me down, I'm obviously doing something wrong. I'm not gorgeous, but I'm far from ugly. I also have a pretty nice car. If that makes any difference.

Please give me some advice/tips/strategies/etc.

Engage in conversation, do a little smooth talking, make several compliments, if they don't get the hint and offer you their number; lose all interest and walk away. You have just built up report and then cut them off from it...they'll crave some more and likely initiate conversation with you. Either ask them out at THIS point or wait for their number.

I dont think I have ever asked a girl out first up. I just hang out with a girl I like a lot and then hang out with her more until im constantly with her. Then when its obvious she likes me back, I break the question.

What signals do you look for in order to be sure she is interested?

quote:Originally posted by Falcon01:

I'm 16 never had a girlfriend. Every girl I have ever asked out has turned me down, I'm obviously doing something wrong. I'm not gorgeous, but I'm far from ugly. I also have a pretty nice car. If that makes any difference.

Please give me some advice/tips/strategies/etc.

Hang in there bro it will work out.

quote:Originally posted by Falcon01:

What signals do you look for in order to be sure she is interested?

She flirts with you, generally wants to spend more time around you, appreciates physical contact with you, is always in a good mood when around you, talks to you on the phone, and goes out of her way to talk to you or spend time with you. All of the blatantly obvious signals.

quote:Originally posted by JesusTookMyBike123:

She flirts with you, generally wants to spend more time around you, appreciates physical contact with you, is always in a good mood when around you, talks to you on the phone, and goes out of her way to talk to you or spend time with you. All of the blatantly obvious signals.



Couldn't have said it better myself, so I won't. ^_^

http://becomeaplayer.com/ with girls these days you never know what is in there head. you might think one thing and them the other. that site has good tip and tricks.

quote:Originally posted by paintballpunk:

I dont think I have ever asked a girl out first up. I just hang out with a girl I like a lot and then hang out with her more until im constantly with her. Then when its obvious she likes me back, I break the question.

thats what i do

get to know her first, don't just go up to some random chic and ask her out. and when u do ask her out get her flowers or something, it'll make saying no hard.

have some CONFIDENCE seem cocky and arragant make it seem like shes not the super special girl that u think about everynight then find urself masturbating to. make it seem like shes just another random chick that won the drawing u have everyday before u go to school and today is her lucky day.If this chick is use to getting alot of attention from guys and sees that u act diffrent that shes not the queen and u wouldnt trow ur jacket over a puddle just so her pink puffs dont get wet then shell go for u chicks want what they cant have

quote:Originally posted by echoman64:

with girls these days you never know what is in there head. you might think one thing and them the other.

There's something called "talking" that tends to get around this problem very easily.

All the girls ive asked out so far I knew liked me from their friend and shit so I didn't really have to worry about getting turned down so my experince won't help except that you do need to get to know a girl some before asking her out. This week I plan to ask this one chick out that I know NOTHING about except her name so im just going to ask her if she wants to go somewhere to GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER better, not a date because lots of girls want to actually know something about the guy they are going to go out with before they go out with them unless they are just going for a one night stand or something. Confidence is also good every girl ive talked to has said they like a guy thats confident(I asked friends who were girls how they would like a guy to ask them out and why) which means you should try your hardest to not be nervous.