Say you are in the bed with a girl (not having sex). She's rubbing your dick, dry humping, massing your junk with her ass, what have you. Anyways, this happened to me a while ago, and I thought about pulling her pants down and slowly putting it in (so she could easily say when I went to far).

Thinking back on this, I'm like "Damn, I could've ass fucked this girl". I didn't want to be greedy though and get fucked (not in the good way ;-) if you get what I'm saying).

Anyways, would it have been wise to have tried it, or was I smart to take what I had and enjoy it.

That doesn't mean she wanted it up the ass necessarily... maybe from behind? Communication is the key grasshopper. Try what feels right, don't be forceful but lead her into where you think "it's" going. She'll let you know if you're out of bounds and barking up the wrong tree.... so to speak.

People usually talk about having anal before they do it. It's kind of a personal thing. I mean you can't just go to fuck a girl and start rammin her in the ass. She'd most likely get freightened and run away.

i highly doubt that because she was dry humping you, or even grinding her arse against you, that she wanted a cock up there. I'd say if she wanted to have sex at all it would be, like was said before, from behind, or just sex...who knows

I didn't necessarily mean "fuck her up the ass", although I said that. I meant penetration in general. MYYYYY BAD, GUUUUYS.

Anyways, the only reason I suspected afterwards she might have wanted to get her freak on is cause she kept grabbing my dong and pushing it into her asshole (through her clothes...dammit).

I agree though, most girls probably wouldn't wanna get assfucked (or fucked in general) from dry humping or dick rubbing. But this girl wasn't most girls. She was pretty fuckin easy to get into bed to do the shit we were doing.

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 04-07-2004).]

Best move in this situation: Start foreplaying back. She will let it go as far as she want's it to go. If she lets you start with her, and it's gone on for a while, take it as a chance. You might want to nudge at the issue, so if she has any real concerns she'll put them up before hand.

If she is rubbin on you, she probably wouldn't object to you doing her some favors.

Whenever is fine.

Ughh, I hate pretending to give "advice" over Totse but...

This might be a bit graphic, but whatever..

I would say, if she lets you, rub your dick against her pussy. Get her really wet, fourplay and what not, then pull down her panties and start rubbing your thang all around her "lower region". Like, put it on her clit and down around the hole, not putting it in, just rubbing.

Thing is, this acutally worked against me. I didn't wanna have sex with my girl and this led up to it. It's just sooo tempting to put it in when things are that close. And eventually, we did it.

I did it just because it was soo freakin awesome to rub it against her, not to try and get her to have sex with me. And it ended up leading into something that at the time, I didn't want to happen.

quote:Originally posted by Lazzaro:

She'd most likely get freightened and run away.

It'd suck if sex had the same affect on male humans as it does on male dogs. That'd be awkward....

quote:Originally posted by Black Flag:

Ughh, I hate pretending to give "advice" over Totse but...

This might be a bit graphic, but whatever..

I would say, if she lets you, rub your dick against her pussy. Get her really wet, fourplay and what not, then pull down her panties and start rubbing your thang all around her "lower region". Like, put it on her clit and down around the hole, not putting it in, just rubbing.

Thing is, this acutally worked against me. I didn't wanna have sex with my girl and this led up to it. It's just sooo tempting to put it in when things are that close. And eventually, we did it.

I did it just because it was soo freakin awesome to rub it against her, not to try and get her to have sex with me. And it ended up leading into something that at the time, I didn't want to happen.

teasing bad! learn self control! don't risk it with the "in the moment" crap, be more careful next time ... meh, already punched ya for it. (you know who to ask if you guys need condoms, hehe)

Damn, I was in exactly the same situation man...



Last night me and my girlfriend (shes nearly 16 and im 16, weve been going out nearly 3 weeks now) took a shitpile of codeine and ended up making out I was doing exactly what black flag said, generally rubbing around. Anyway she gently pulled down my boxers and I took down her thong. My penis was in between her legs resting on her vagina. At this point I thought damn I'm gon' get some, heh.

She leaned over and whispered 'not yet'. I was totally fine with this, I wouldnt want to do anything she didn't want.

Anyway we made out more and ended up going down on each other, so the night wasnt a total cop-out

Dave

quote:Originally posted by TheDragon:

Say you are in the bed with a girl (not having sex). She's rubbing your dick, dry humping, massing your junk with her ass, what have you. Anyways, this happened to me a while ago, and I thought about pulling her pants down and slowly putting it in (so she could easily say when I went to far).

Thinking back on this, I'm like "Damn, I could've ass fucked this girl". I didn't want to be greedy though and get fucked (not in the good way ;-) if you get what I'm saying).

Anyways, would it have been wise to have tried it, or was I smart to take what I had and enjoy it.

What kind of freak are you putting clothes on animals, and rubbing their special parts?!?

There's a pretty big gap between clothes on and fucking of any sort. You have to get the juices flowing, which does not mean immediately stampeding the clitoris!

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

There's a pretty big gap between clothes on and fucking of any sort. You have to get the juices flowing, which does not mean immediately stampeding the clitoris!

Eh...we were in underwear...but you're right still.

So underwear isn't considered clothes anymore... *looks down* shit!!! Looks like I'm screwed...(no pun intended)

quote:Originally posted by elite_dance:

So underwear isn't considered clothes anymore... *looks down* shit!!! Looks like I'm screwed...(no pun intended)

I didn't say that. I mentioned that it was underwear. I also said that "he was still right", implying that his point was valid since I WAS wearing clothes.

But, I would also say that underwaer is a lot less clothes than some jeans and a sweatshirt on.