can you fall in love with someone who lives so far away, 2 years older than you, and you met them online? im totaly falling for this girl i could name a thousand things about her that i love, you all know what they are..its what you want in your perfect dream girl. well i think i found her. shes turing 18 and i just turned 16 and she'll be going off to college next year and ill be in 11th. ive told her how much i like her and ive gotten to know her so well, we talk on the phone, online, ive seen sooooo many pictures of her, ive talked to lots of her friends, they think im awesome. and yes..she likes me as well. its just great and the things we say to each other are amazing, everytime i read an email from her it automatically makes that day the best. id marry this girl right now if i could. whenever i think about how far away she is it hurts. and we're not bf and gf. ive never asked her to be. cause i dont know how she will react to an online thing, even though im coming to see her this summer. i swear im crazy for her, we're not even together and i get jealous of any guy posting any comment on her online journal or her talking about any guy, or anything.

i just wanna know.

1. is there any chance in hell this will work?

2. if so....what do i do? should i ask her to be my gf??

3. i dont know what 3 is...you make it up.

1. It could possibly work. It depends really.

2. You should decide this ourself, not ask others. It is a personal thing you should do yourself to make it special.

3. No, a walnut does not have a penis.

yea i guess it is up to me. i just wanted to know if i was wishing on something that couldnt happen. but see i want to ask her i really do. i just dont want her to react badly and then everything go wrong.

what?!?! walnuts dont? really? dangit. that shoots my theory right out the window

quote:Originally posted by -Trigun-:

i just wanna know.

1. is there any chance in hell this will work?

2. if so....what do i do? should i ask her to be my gf??

3. i dont know what 3 is...you make it up.[/B]

1. Odder things have happened.

2. Don't ask her to be your girlfriend, have a good adult talk about exclusivity and the future of your relationship.

3. Rectum, damn near killed em.

hahaha

hmmm seems her best friend thinks she has the same feelings for me...just not sure if she wants an online thing. which i fully understand.

but im kinda sad..its my birthday today, and she knows...she said she would call..umm no call.. : (

1: No, it won't work... I've been having sex with her regularly, you'd pale in comparison.

2: Don't ask her to be your GF.. it'd just piss me off and I'd have to kill you.

3: I'm just kidding, here is my advice...

Being or feeling or thinking (same diff) that you're in love is the best feeling you're likely to experience, whether it's RT or online... just be aware (you didn't mention the distance) that miles can take their toll on the relationship. Doesn't mean it won't work. It can be difficult. I was in a 3 year 1800 mile relationship, we saw each other physically 3 or 4 times a year, great times, but it wasn't enough for either of us and didn't pull through. People have needs, you're a teenager, I was quite older, teenagers hormones are worse.

If the committment is there and the feelings are strong enough it can work out. Best of luck to you and post the results of your experience... it could help others here.

Yes, it can work. I've been doing that with my girlfriend for a year now.

No, you shouldn't do it. It sucks beyond -belief- not to be able to be with the person you love. We knew what we were getting into and still gave it a try, we can't stop now because we love each other but my advice to you is to just get over it and find somebody else. Certainly that'll be a favour for her because she's bound to meet people at university and I think one should be single when starting university at least.

Good luck with whatever you choose.

Yes it can!

My g/f and me met when she emailed me from the US. im in Ireland. We were talking on the phone after a couple of weeks and were in love almost immediatly. She was here last month to see me and we got engaged and Im going to see her on the 30th of this month!

Pretty much all of what you said has happened for us, the emails making each others day, her friends aking to me etc. I love her to death and would do anything for her and I would marry her tomorrow too, she has a dress picked out and all but it wont be happening tl she graduates college next year. It all started out like you say with pics etc and all and has just developed so far so quick and she is to me the most perfect girl Ive ever known in every way. So yes it can work!!!

wow a lot more people than i thought would understand my feelings.

oh and distance...i live in georgia and she lives in new york. she doesnt have a car, neither do i. and my parents are those strict realigous sheltering freaks. i never leave the house....thats why i joined totse. haha

i might see her this summer. i so hope so, and if i can im gonna make it worth while.

but yes this feeling of love is incrediable. i went out with a girl for a year and a half, i thought i was in love with her, i broke it off not to long ago. and i met this girl in new york like a month before i ended with my gf, shes not the reason i did it. but already in just 3 months and me just getting over this relationship, im so much more in love with this new york girl than i ever dreamed i was with my ex. its so great. everytime i cant talk to her it makes me so sad.

well glad you guys know where im coming from.

[This message has been edited by -Trigun- (edited 04-08-2004).]