Ok so my girlfriend is bisexual. I am cool if she does shit with another girl but if she would happen to do stuff with another man I would feel as if I am being cheated on.

I would never even touch another girl or boy (I am totally heterosexual). So if you by chance would be going out with a bisexual boy or girl how would YOU feel about thier sexual encounters with someone else??

how is your girl freind not cheating on you if she 'fucks' another woman?

Good point. I guess I just feel comfortable with her "fucking" another girl but I would be at least pissed if she would hook up with another boy/man. Now my best friend said " oh yea, **** is gonna love two girls in the same bed" but honestly I'am not letting my girlfriend slide with other girls just because I want two of them. I just feel she should be able to "do things" with other girls but not other men considering I am her boyfriend.

i date a bi woman, she can do what she want's with girls what she wants (as long as it's not to often)

it's cool, works perfect

and if you're invited

Uh, I'd be pissed off if she was cheating on anyone. Male or female....

the bein invited most of the time makes up for a lot

a serious relationship with a bisexual person is going to be hard, if they want to be out and around other people.

But see, if i were going out with a man and tried to use the excuse "i only slept with him because i'm heterosexual" it wouldnt work, so why the double standard? To me cheating is cheating.

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

To me cheating is cheating.

Agreed. I am bi and I don't fuck around with girls when I am in a relationship, and vice versa. Cheating is cheating.

Cheating is playing outside the rules. If he agrees messing around with other girls is in bounds, it's all kosher.

quote:Originally posted by GoAt:

how is your girl freind not cheating on you if she 'fucks' another woman?

I imagine this is more a subconscious brain chemical thing than anything else. The "animal" part of your brain recognizes you can't procreate in that manner, and hence you don't see a competing genetic line working against you.

My two cents.

ok, i'm bi (also male, but that don't matter), and while i'm typing this, you must understand i am beyond the point of tired

if you are completely hetero, then WHY THE HELL ARE YOU DATING A BISEXUAL CHIC?! that's like a complete hetero chic going out with a guy who's bi, IT DOESN'T WORK! now, i don't have -much- experience with guys, but i can generally say guys are one hell of a lot less open about certain things than girls. for one, if a guy is bi/gay, they have the whole "coming out of the closet" (denial) ordeal to go through. where as girls (no offence intended), all girls are bisexual. it's those that reject one impulse and stimulate the other that define themselves differently. but to say "i am completely hetero" or "i would be right pissed off if my (partner) were to 'fuck' another person," TOTALLY and UTTERLY contradicts the reasons for going out with a person that is bi.

so, my little tip of advice for you kiddies is such: if you can't handle ALL the lovin', then start lovin' what you can handle (in otherwords, if yer completely straight, then only go for straights)

Shalakai

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quote:Originally posted by shalakai:

if you are completely hetero, then WHY THE HELL ARE YOU DATING A BISEXUAL CHIC?!

Well, if I dated a bisexual chick, it'd probably be because I like her. It's a bit odd, I know. Maybe I'm unique like that.

Physically, he is hetro. But he doesn't care if his bi-g/f has 'relations' with another girl.

Whats the big deal?

I've tried it, the whole going out with a bisexual girl. She never did anything more than kissing another girl, but she cheated on me multiple times with guys. Dammit, I was way too forgiving.

quote:Originally posted by JesusTookMyBike123:

Agreed. I am bi and I don't fuck around with girls when I am in a relationship, and vice versa. Cheating is cheating.





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