ok tonight, my girlfriend gave me the first blow job she has given,and it was the first one i had gotten, well it took 45 MINUTES!!! it wasnt that she sucked, it felt damn good the whole time, i finally did cum though, but it was after she did part hand job then when it got kind of close she finished it off and all, i dont know why it took 45 minutes though, i told her to try and use hand and mouth at the same time but she isnt coordinated enough to do so, i told her to make kind of moaning sounds, which helped but it still took awhile, any ideas that you can think of to help (other than her putting her finger in my ass) any help is much appreciated

Dont jerk it before hand dude!

well, i did do it, but, i did it in the morning, and i got head at around 930 or so, so yea...

Practice makes perfect. Keep her at it. Give her little hints and instructions each time. She'll catch on.

Ha tell her she sucks at giving you a blow job.



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quote:Originally posted by elf:

Ha tell her she sucks at giving you a blow job.



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahahaha...

But seriously... I haven't been able to cum from a bj. I don't think its her fault though. I am SO pissed at my parents for this circumcision thing!

heh, im circumsized, but when she would mess around with her tongue and my head, id go crazy, but itd be too much to handle at once but if i could handle it id prolly get one in 2 minutes

A lot of girl have trouble getting guys to cum via blow jobs, and a lot of guys have trouble cumming via blow jobs.

You should give her time to practice being coordinated. I dont know if you have tried to move your hand and mouth up and down in sync, but its not easy to begin with. It just takes practice...If she starts slow, she can work up to a nice coordinated pace. When she gets to it, it will be much easier to get off via blow job...She can move much faster with her hand there because she doesnt have to worry about going too deep and accidentally hitting her gag reflex.

Practice.

quote:Originally posted by Silentassault:

it wasnt that she sucked

quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:



sucked as in, not doing a good job

Grab her by the hair, pr0n style and push and pull her head the way you like it. If she loves you she will obey.

^heh...she'll obey or puke on your cock.

Do you have what's considered a larger than average penis? It's really difficult to give a proper blow job to such guys, at least it is for me and other women I know.

I definitely have to incorporate my hand or the poor guy would NEVER get off. It's especially tiring to keep up the pace on larger-than average guys.

i guess you could say its average to the bigger extent, she has said it was big, but it seemd that she had trouble keeping pace, but started to use her hand only, then just her mouth and so on so you think that just practice would make perfect? also if you could include some tips for eating her out and what not, she had changed her mind with the oral idea, wouldnt let me do it(she was first) then when it was my turn took me by surprise, so i think id like to take her by surprise somehow, have any ideas? (besides finger in the ass, she WILL NOT do that)

quote:Originally posted by Silentassault:

ok tonight, my girlfriend gave me the first blow job she has given,and it was the first one i had gotten, well it took 45 MINUTES!!!

Why is this bad? Think, dude! If she's fairly young and unfamiliar with the mechanics of things, she'll go brag to her friends about how her boyfriend lasted through 45 minutes of direct stimulation. When you break up, all the girls will think you're some kind of master pimp compared to the five-minute-wonders, and want to hop on.

Perspective, bro, it's all in the perspective.

Am I the only one who thought " Damn she sucked for 45 mins!!! I have never had a 45min BJ, mand she must love you"

Dont complain, if she hangs in for 45 mins she must fucking love you. DAMN does she have ADD? No normal person should suck for 45 mins.