Why is that when I finger the girl's vagina to the second nuckle or third that she tell's me it hurts. or when i stimulate her clit too much she tells me it hurts. i was like why does it hurt...she said she doesn't know and she said it's like a little bit of good and a little bit of bad feeling. i wanna make her orgasm and/or perhaps cum but she takes my hand away from her...i don't even understand.

maybe shes not wet enough, Use your head.

use my head!? dude...she said she was wetter this time than the last time i fingered her...and i could feel her wetness on my finger so it has absolutely nothing to do with wetness.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

use my head!? dude...she said she was wetter this time than the last time i fingered her...and i could feel her wetness on my finger so it has absolutely nothing to do with wetness. It doesn't matter if you feel a dampness... use a lubricant next time and I bet you she'll enjoy it more.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

use my head!? dude...she said she was wetter this time than the last time i fingered her...and i could feel her wetness on my finger so it has absolutely nothing to do with wetness.



nooo use your head, not your fingers.

maybe they just dont want you to.

Genitals are extremely sensitive because there are a hella lot of nerve endings down there. This means that the resulting feeling can either be pleasure, or pain. A handjob feels good, but if a chick is jacking you off with all her might and a tight grip, the feel good wears off mighty quick. You have to be gentle, communicate with her (tell her to tell you if it is even a little sore, and you can move until it feels good again), and switch up what you are doing (as to stop excess stress on one particular spot).

If you really want to get her to orgasm (if when you say cum, you are talking about female ejaculations, you may want to google it...theres a lot of long tutorials about this...i would focus on the orgasm first) you might want to throw some oral in there. If you can learn to eat a girl out well, you have every card in your hand. There are a bunch of tutorials all over this board, so i am not going to type oral advice right now :-p

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

use my head!? dude...she said she was wetter this time than the last time i fingered her...and i could feel her wetness on my finger so it has absolutely nothing to do with wetness.

You don't turn her on man. My g/f has only been fingerd by one other guy, and she said that sucked. I belive her cause that guy is kinda gay or someting...not good with the ladies. She should get a little more wet than "damp" man. I can feel her on my hand Last time I was making out with my g/f on the couch I noticed it through her pants. She was really, really embarrased about it, but I told her it was alright. If I can turn her on that much, awsome! You have to make her horny first. Dont jump into it, and do it slow first. I have given my girl pretty big orgasms for fingering. And it's apparent shes not faking. She cant even kiss me while shes breathing that short of breath, and she doesnt realize she says anything while happening. Then I mentioned that later and she was embaressed about that too. Plain and simple, you don't turn her on enough. Kiss her and rub her inner thigh some first.

acid_drop, it is ok that you don't know how i turn her on...let me just tell you what i did for her first time (she was nervous) so i gave her all the space that she needed to make her comfortable...

i started to message and rub her back slowly to get her in a relaxed state. then i told her to turn over and her stomach and messaged her stomach...from here she telling me what to do. so im messaging her slowly moving myself up to her breast...i carress her breast and kiss her tits for awhile (and french kissing her too)...she is really admireing this only. so she tells me to move down to her vagina but she keeps her pants on...so i rub the surface of her vagina (she has thong on) and then after some time i take her thong and lick her genitals and then move to the clit (where i make sure it is very wet first) and then i finger her slowly with 1 finger...and carress her breast with my free hand and use my mouth to lick her clit...she is moaning at this point...so the point im trying to make here i that i dont rush...which i told her that i wouldnt do...cuz then she wont get into the right mood...and iv read MANY tutorials on giving the best oral (Cunnilingus) to a girl.

And I DO turn her on...cuz she says "i'v never been this wet before"...and "she says im great/amazing" so that makes me happy but not the happpiest cuz i cant make her cum or orgasm really big...cuz she says it hurts when i give her too much stimulation on her clit or finger her DEEP and then curl my hand and press against behind her pubic bone.

Yeah because you can over stimulate the clit. Not to mention them having to tell you what to do, generaly get them out of the mood. besides not all girl 'cum'.

And I hate to say this because I'll get yelled at, but: She could be faking it man.

She says she didn't fake it...she says if she does it she does it and vice versa...but i dont care about the moaning part...i want to make her 'cum', which not girls do but i would feel like i have accomplished something if i can do that.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

She says she didn't fake it...she says if she does it she does it and vice versa...but i dont care about the moaning part...i want to make her 'cum', which not girls do but i would feel like i have accomplished something if i can do that.

She cant be very turned on if you cant get past the second knuckle anyway. Is she a virgin?

yep...she is a virgin...and she said she was very very horny...explains the wetness.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

yep...she is a virgin...and she said she was very very horny...explains the wetness.

.....Dont bitch at me for this but have you had any prior experiances?

yes i am very experienced and i dont care how you think of me cuz i dont know you and thus dont give a flying fuck of wut u think of me.

Capitalization and grammer is your friend. No offence but you sound sound a little young and inexperianced. I don't say this to be mean but... Like I said dont just jump into sexual activty. Dont just on top of her tits first thing. Sit/lay with her can caress her arms and sides. Kissing her neck will help if you can make that tickle.

i dont give a damn about capitalization/punctuation/grammer when im typing online, i just get the point across. now 'sounding' inexperienced is a totally different thing.

Useing periods and complete sentances is easier to understand. Didnt your mother teach you anything? And dont say your very experianced. Please it's obvious so just dont.

Why should I say something that I am not? I am very experienced, really...now give me an example of how you can infer that I am not experienced. (you know I didn't say EVERYTHING of what i did to her just the major)

From the verbal examples I've been given the impresion that shes not much In to this. Maybe she's to new to the whole sexuality thing. If there is someone else in the house she may be a little nervous. Don't make her tell you what to do, It makes them think you cant do it yourself. Be sure whatever you do, when done, stay with them and cuddle. They will think so much more of you if you do.

She is nervous because she has never been fully nude infront of a guy. She is new too and i didn't want to rush her or take control of her because like I said she was nervous. I wasn't just going to dive into her panties suddenly.

Dominon how old are you two?

You two are a couple of goddamn idiots.

remember the southpark where the older guitarist starts seeing cartmans young sister

say no more...

"Dominon how old are you two?"

Dago, I'm 18 why do you want to know?

Late reply I had a long and busy weekend.

[This message has been edited by DoMiNiOn (edited 04-05-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

She is nervous because she has never been fully nude infront of a guy. She is new too and i didn't want to rush her or take control of her because like I said she was nervous. I wasn't just going to dive into her panties suddenly.



fuck that, the first time i saw my ex gf, that night I ate hger out and fingered her. She had never been naked in front of a guy. she hadent even made out.