Can you guys give some tips on when another guy hits on your girl and what to do? this happens quite often. Plz no stupid comments keep this as spam free as possible.

self-confidence, trust, tolerance, the right feeling for when to kick his ass ...

Don't be jealous and do something stupid, girls do not appreciate that, if she is uncomfortable then step in but keep in low key. Remember she picked you to go home with, not him. If he continues to be a problem, then deal with him.

Ummm, doesn't your girl blow the guy off (In a non-sexual way)?

My girl tends to just smile thinly at the bastards and walk off to get a drink elsewhere, either that or she pointedly diverts her attention to another group that's talking.

If your girlfriend really likes you, you shouldn't be worried about guys coming up; in a way it's flattering so let it slide. Just be sure to beat their arses if they become too persistent after her disinterest.

Yeh i've got a guy after my girl.

At the moment im just letting it go, because I know she wants me and not him.

If it goes on for much longer though, I might just have to have a "quiet chat"

If you hurt this kid, your girl is going to be pissed.

Either this guy is too aggressive, and he needs to be talked to (preferably by her...and not talked to in the beating up way, in the nice "hey you need to stop" way), or you are way to under confident in your relationship. The guy should not be posing a threat on your relationship if you are confident in it.

Thanks for the advice guys.

My g/f is always and I mean always being hit on by other guys. 2 or 3 of them that she knows quite well and that hang around in the same cirlce of friends and all 3 know she is engaged to someone in Ireland and one has even come on the phone to me. She tells me when they do and ok I get a bit pissed at times when she tells me they act like assholes or something when she tells them to piss off and all but I trust her and know she wouldnt do anything.

When she was here (She is in the US me in Ireland) a shit load of guys that I know were coming on to her in the local bars til they'd see her with me and even more so in the ones in the city centre but again I trust her the same as she trusts me when she sees some girl coming up to me.

Just ignore it. If she is doing something to encourage it then the chances are she is eithr teasing you or is into the whole thing of having her partner being all jealous all the time and that will lead to problems. I mean my g/f doesn't go around looking to be hit on, if she did I owuldnt be as understanding cos that shit is just annoying.