ok, my girlfriend seems to be bored with things sexually, well, she says she isnt ready to give/receive oral, and objects to anything doing with her ass, so do you guys have anything i could try to do or do differently with her to make her enjoy it more? thanks in advance

You didn't mention your ages, I'm guessing around 16? Well for starters, try getting her really drunk. Or... show by way of action or words that there are many more things to sex than just straight fucking... I assume that's what you've been doing?

It's kind of strange to me that you've been having sex without much foreplay... I was under the impression that nowadays a blow job was likened to a kiss goodnight. Anyway, try to implement some ideas to get her out of the frame of mind that she's apparently in.. maybe there's a reason she's not telling you about as to why she's not ready for oral?

It will happen when she's ready, the best I can suggest is to try and help it along and/or talk to her.. find out why she's so resistant to trying something new... good luck.

-Extant

well we are both 15, and we have just been doing the hand jobs and fingering, but she said that maybe why she hadnt been getting to many orgasms or whatever was becuz she was getting use to the feeling of it, id just like to know what i could do, becuz sex is for sure out of the question so any help would be appreciated

I wouldnt suggest drinking.

Girls wont give oral because they feel it's degrading etc. (funny how they are the same girls who want guys to go down on them?). Has she ever given you blow job and not liked it or just wont ever do it. If you could convince her to ever give you a blow job and show her that you really enjoy it, and you make it nicer for her (i know many a girl who doesnt like oral because all their experiences include boys who like to tug on hair or ram their cock down her throat or push on her head to get her to go down further...i think that may rival communication as being the best blow job recieving advice). If she sees the enjoyment, and knows its not that bad, then she will probably not mind doing it again.

Most teenage girls will take some convincing to recieve oral. Despite feminists, girls are still brought up with this impression that their cooch is nasty. Most are also very self concious about it. What if she tastes bad and then you dont like her feelings etc. There are two ways that you can get to go down on her. Either beg and beg and beg until she lets you, or slowly work up to it. Prove to her that she doesn't taste bad to you by licking your fingers when you are done fingering her, then the next time, while you are fingering her, kiss her inner thighs and mons area, and then move on to eating her out...that way, you can just explain it with i got carried away. Either way, make it good, and she will want it again.

The only sex acts i can think of that you can do without including penetration, ass, oral etc. are kinkier things. Like you could titty fuck her. But given that she seems pretty straight and narrow, that is probably out of the question.

Maybe you could invest in toys? Like how would she feel if you bought a dildo or a vibrator or something? That can make it more enjoyable.