I have recently had my first sexual experience with my girl friend (well apart from forplay neway) and i came upon a problem... all the forplay (lots and lots ) seemed to tire me out and by the time of sexual intercorse, i just couldnt keep a hard one! she is fine bout it but i would rather it didnt happen again.. anybody got any ideas on how to avoid this??

cheers guys.

Learn how to economize your energy reserves. Use small and sensual hand movements and shit like that rather than shit like dry humping and tongue kissing. Also, it's always nice to save enough energy to perform the All-American "Stand And Deliver"...girls love to be hoisted up, pressed against a wall, and fucked into ecstacy.

Practice flexing, you know, down there... I had the same problem you did when I was 14, but no more...

There could be a variety of reasons. The most likely reason is that, contrary to popular belief, most humans have defects. Not just glary defects like serious mental retardation, but smaller and less visible defects.

Many people (the world over) suffer from various sexual defects. Some women just can't get 'wet', have an abnormally small (or large clitoris), or internal defects that prevent them from having children. Some guys can't get an erection (ever), have severely curving penis, or can't produce sperm.

It could be that you have a condition that prevents you from enjoying sex. Check with a doctor if you are uncertain.

Then again, you could just be out-of-shape and/or lazy.





[This message has been edited by Who's Your Daddy? (edited 04-02-2004).]

na man, no defect, i can get a hard one. well i always have been able to up to now, ive been fine with forplay and stuff, i suppose ill jus try to limit the forplay... wish me luck! tomoz were trying again!

The answer lies on the path of less foreplay, young glasshopper!

Just make a compromise with your girlfriend...Or just cut out some of the foreplay and get straight to the lovin'!

Simple innit?!

Well if you aren't in shape, then there you go. Or you could have circulatory problems.. I dunno. There are a number of possibilities. It could be something as simple as you just needing to be more fit, and healthy so you can keep going at it without a problem.. or it could be that your body has a problem keeping up blood pressure over a long period of time. If the people on Totse don't come up with a solution/answer that seems to make sense, then wait for the next time/get in shape, and if it keeps up.. or may have to go to the doctors.. Could be something like ED. Good luck.

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