Well I'm going to go stay with my boyfriend tomorrow night...its his birthday...I'm almost sure that we are going to have sex. I'm still a virgin, and was wondering if there is something I could possibly do to make it less painful, I've only been fingered with one finger, so its going to be a big difference. Any one got any ideas? (No I'm not too afraid to do it without anything but if there is something that works, why not know about it)

Take a little bit of alchohol, or a low dose of opiates.

Since I'm not a girl that's all the advice I can give :/

nope

You've only been finger'd...well there is a big difference unless your BF has the dick size of a finger.

Just relax, foreplay and if it's his first time tell him to try to last more than 5 minutes before ejaculation so you can atleast warm up.

i'm no girl but i imagine it would be more comfortable if you were...primed for action, i know that it makes it a lot more enjoyable when i'm with my girl. Make him engage in foreplay with you i mean you are giving up your virginity for him. Also you might want him to finger you before, start with one then have him use two. Besides feeling a lot better it will, forgive the incipient crudity, loosen you up a bit.

Other than that make him go slow, tell him if it hurts too much, and stay relaxed. I'm sure there are girls here who can give you better advice.



have fun, sex is great if you kids can figure out what the hell you're doing

I am a girl and I say have a few drinks. It will loosen you up. Do not get drunk because you want that awesome first time feeling and all, but a few drinks will ease the pain so that you can actually enjoy that first time feeling.

Just to let you know, on my first time I didn't have any drinks and I really wish I did. If you don't drink you will still be able to go through with it, but I know you will not get a whole lot of pleasure out of it. You will pretty much be dying for him to finish.

FOREPLAY! u gotta get nice and loose in there so it dont hurt so if u can handle 2 fingers with ease then u should be fine if not just loosen up and relax, tell him to go slow and make sure ur wet

as other people have said already, foreplay is key so that you're relaxed, loosened up a bit, and nice and wet. fingering is key, one to two should get you nice and comfy and have him go slow and easy. be sure to tell him if anything hurts that doesn't feel like just your hymen breaking (like if he hits your cervix, you'll be able to tell). other than that, just relax, and have fun, go with the flow.

Use the back door.



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Theta is a fucko.

Just lube up real good and dont pussy foot around. get him to tease your cunt a bit then ram it in. (mak sure your drunkish)

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