I first was rubbing my gf's clit and sucking it. i made sure it was very wet first and then as i was licking her clit i put my index finger in her vagina and slowly applied pressure against her pubic bone. i kept doing this and she moaning. she then told me it hurts when i go too deep in her vagina using my finger? why is that.

[This message has been edited by DoMiNiOn (edited 03-31-2004).]

My guess is that when you in really deep the rest of your hand is at an uncomfortable angle with her body. Your hand is probably rubbing against her and it get sore.

That's my 2 cents

PSYCH0TIK, you a girl? if so, then what would you recommend or suggest doing to make it more comfortable for her? change angle on my finger or what.

Yep, I be a girl. So I hear anyway...

Sorry, I can't really think of anything. You will either have to stop doing deeper when the rest of your hand is up against her or use something else (Dildo and what-have-you's)

Deeper isn't always better.

Warning: this gets a bit graphic

Try this simple one:

Use you tongue on her clitoris and while you are doing that curl your index finger up into her vagina. You're aiming for the 'G' spot. You will probably need to go in right up into the last knuckle. Make sure to fold all your other fingers (and thumb) back.

When she starts to orgasm, pull your index finger out to the second knuckle and gently insert your middle finger (to the same depth as your index finger) and gently and rhythmically stoke the inside wall of her vagina. Don't let off that tongue! After she orgasm slowly and lightly continue to use your tongue and remove your fingers.

Above all, don't rush. Take your time and enjoy yourself, and let her enjoy it too!

While I'm at it, let me recommend a good book: The Big O (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0767907485/qid=1080768324/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/002-9632346-6018446?v=glance&s=books). You don't even have to buy it, just visit your local library. Remember, reading is fundamental!



- Who's Your Daddy?

I havent seen you in a while

Me or someone else?

if you're in between her legs facing up at her finger her with your palm down, it looks kind of silly if you think of it, like you're just poking her.

If you're above her or next to her rest your palm on her stomach with your fingers along her leg or what have you, use your middle finger, if you use two fingers use your middle and ring finger.

hope that makes sense