SOrry This should be titled "What if"

Ok, so I live with 4 girls (my mom, and sisters 18,16,8) and my brother 12.

they seem to like to control what I do. They also tell me who I should date and who likes me. They can tell who I like, and recently they have been conspiring to hook me up with 2 of my sisters friends for prom. They have done this all my life.



My mom and her friend (she thinks im the greatest thing in the world) have always talked about me and her daughter getting married. I mean this has been going on since I was in 4th grade. She likes me and I like her. But we have never talked or hung out or anything.

In the last 2.5 months I broke up with my gf, she was way to like my mom ( a bitch). Now in the last month my mom has been talking about me going to prom. She told me she talked to her friend and her daughter would go. I dont like to go to dances and stuff, but the thing I felt weird about is that she has a bf.

The thing is, I think that her and I would be really happy, Like if we got married. I dont want to. But shes the only Girl I have acutaly thought about "what if I spent the rest of my life and settled down.... who would it be with...", and I can just picture it with her.

I dont know what im posting exactly or where im going with this, but I was thinking maybe someone could help me out with this.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 03-31-2004).]

Does she feel the same way?

Talk to her

Going to the prom with her shouldn't be a problem even if she has a boyfriend, your friends and their's nothing wrong with going to a dance with a friend, just keep in mind that she does have a boyfriend, if you respect that I don't see why it should be a problem.

[This message has been edited by vanillalick (edited 03-31-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by vanillalick:

Does she feel the same way?

Talk to her

Going to the prom with her shouldn't be a problem even if she has a boyfriend, your friends and their's nothing wrong with going to a dance with a friend, just keep in mind that she does have a boyfriend, if you respect that I don't see why it should be a problem.

[This message has been edited by vanillalick (edited 03-31-2004).]

Im not her friend. I dont talk to her much. We dont hang out.

I think I said that she likes me and I like her. Shes kinda shy. I dont know.

BLAH > Its just one of those months <

Take advantage of it, it's the perfect opportunity to talk to her and to get to know her, as long as you respect that she has a boyfriend and keep your hands to yourself, what so wrong with it, either way if you two do become an item she has to leave her boyfriend first, I say just sit back be supportive and wait.

And at least you will find out exactly were you two stand, you might think she likes you but if you never talk to her or hang out with her how sure can you be.

hope it helps,

What do you have to loss?