Okay well basically I want to talk to a girl who I think she is cute and told a friend I said whats up. Well she told her I was cute also and she always would make eye contact with me, especially the night after she found out I said shes cute. This was last week. Now this week stared Im trying to work up the balls to talk to her myself but whenever I walk by she looks at me then the other way like she didnt notice me. Is she REALLY SHY? Or is she trying to make it seem like she doesnt notice me? I think shes just being super shy... by the way we are in highschool.

I dunno man,maybe she is just waiting for you to ask her out and is trying to seem like she doesnt care.I wish I could lend some more insight but I never had a girlfriend before...or done anything with a girl for that matter basically because of people doing shit like this.Always have to play games and bullshit around,just go up to her and ask her if she likes you or not.

Once again,chicks just like to give you a bunch of crap,so who knows man,but best of luck to you.

Just talk to her. I think she's just being shy, and trying not to look too interested. Give her a smile and see if she gives one back.

Don't worry so much though. Everyone makes an ass of themselves in highschool once or twice. That's what highschool is for. And when you graduate, the things you'll regret the most won't be when you made an ass of yourself, it'll be the times you didn't even try.

Good luck, and remember: You da man!

Heh thanks guys. I have noticed all the B.S. games. I have her on my online messenger...should I atleast try and break the ice on there first or just go strait up to her...... She always walks to swiftly in the hallway talking to a friend. I mean imagine a girl walking quickly with another girlfriend of hers, and here I am, just go up to her, make her stop....maybe if i could get a proper introduction.

grow some balls and just talk to her, take a chance. maybe she's playing hard to get, or just seeing what you'll do. remember, most girls like confidence.

Yeah, confidence is a sign of a big dick. I wish I had confidence.

quote:Originally posted by KidKelko:

Yeah, confidence is a sign of a big dick. I wish I had confidence.

hey it's not the size that matters, it's what you do with it that counts.

I have as much confidence as I have self esteem.

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But you dont understand how intimidating (SP) it is. I just seen her twice last passing period. You would know what I mean. Its not a stuck up walk, its i "im a short cute girl who walks quickly with my friends in a hurry" type walk... FUCK!!! its driving me nuts. this is why i hate even thinking about trying.

Yes we DO understand how intimidating it is because most of us have been through it. What's the worst that could happen, if she beats you down, its not like you really knew her anyway.

Grow a pair and go talk to her. Thats how I was in high school, if I wanted to go out with someone, I talked to them even if I didn't know them. Girls like it, especially when its someone they don't know randomly being confidently friendly.

Worked almost every time for me, except one girl who turned out to be a rich snobby bitch. She looked at me with the "can I help you" sneer and I walked away.

confidence isnt a sign of a big dick. well maybe it is but my confidence comes from if i make a ass of myself and someone sais haha you fell out that tree my reply would be something like yea i fell out the tree so wot. now if you dont mind im gonna go fall out this tree again. basically not giving a shit about what anyone else thinks of me but this means that i dont take much notice of girls hitting on me and basically have to wait till my mate sais she really likes you. it sucks sometimes

Well see right now Im really high so I could talk to her anyone, even britney spears in a snap without hesitation. If only I could go to school high like I used to, see her and i would be really cool and all because I have no fear. IF only i could get high before school it would work.

Yeah, but what if she finds out and she's vehemently against drugs? You'd be in a shitty spot then wouldn't you?

Yes true but it would be only 1 time to break the ice. Her last boyfriend was a 5 foot 2 115 pound pot smoking badass. You know the type. They act badass and wear dickies.