So the 'her, is my girlfriend, not been going out long not new her too long really, ime nervous around and shy around her too i suppose.

Its basicly that i get really quiet, ime usally kind of talkitive and quit witty, but when ime with her i just get shy and cant think of anything to say my mind just goes blank.

Now if this carrys on i know its going to ruin any chances i have of staying with her, so i need some tips on how i can relax and just loosen up when ime with her.

Sorry about spelling.

Ow... Reading your post hurts. At least you know you've got a problem, though, so I guess I'll cut you some slack... But ow nonetheless.

As far as the nervousness goes... That's something you're gonna have to work out on your own. There's no trick you can use, no secret.

Just remember that's what's gonna happen is gonna happen. Being nervous is pointless at best and destructive at worst.

This girl chose you. Make no mistake about it. Guys as a rule are pretty flexible and open, but women pick out their mates. She likes you. You've got nothing to be nervous about.

Your right about her picking me but i thought that she would be quiet a hard girl to get with but she as i reasently found out has had alot of boyfriends and never goes long without being with someone, ime still trying to find out if shes a slut or not but i guess only time will tell on that one.

As for my shyness i decided to just say fuck it and do what i need to do, i will see her tomorrow and i will kiss her tomorrow i promis this to everyone.

i think you should just hang out a bit more, try talking, you're the only one who can help yourself get over being nervous, no ones gonna magically drop fairy dust on you and suddenly you'll talk up a storm, of course, it's her job too considering you're going out meaning you're in a "relationship" because it's not just up to you to talk and have stuff to say it's a two-way conversation not a one sided thing. just go with the flow, you don't have to always talk about something serious, you can start with the weather and go from there really. makes sense that you're nervous cuz you worry what she thinks of you, but just relax a little, like Asumoru said, she picked you, just be yourself and don't worry.