man i feel so bad. there is this girl i was with her for about 10 months. we broke up because things werent working out. we decide to still be freinds. eventually she started seeing this other boy. so as soon i see her with him i felt like i still love her. i would talk to her freinds a lot too. i found out that she still loved me too. so she breaks up with her other boyfriend for one reason or another. we start talking and she invites me up her house, so i go up and see her and we didnt get up to anything, we were just talking like freinds. so the next day in school i ask her out. she said yes but not right now, theres to many complications. i asked her to tell me but she said no. so i keep going on about it asking her she just kept saying later. so we just carry on being freinds for a while. my freind some how found out what it is. she is PREGENANT. it is the other boys child. she doesnt know i know and i feel so guilty. what should i do?

How old are you?

How old is she?

Is she really pregnant or is it just a rumor?

What is she planning on doing about it?

Do you really love her?

No matter what decision she makes about it, be there for her and support her. It's her choice, and if you love her you'll be there for her. She'll no doubt be very scared and confused, so just help her through this.

i hate being cynical but i was looking through my senior yearbook and noticed that every other girl or so had gotten pregnant either while we were in school or shortly after graduation. i understand that these things happen, and probably don't happen much more now than they have in the past, but it seems to me like the high rate of teen pregnancy is a sign of growing carelessness not only in sexual arenas but in aspects of every day life. the concept of love is an excellent thing, and if you truly love someone it's best to show it through care and understanding through any plight. however the pregnancy filter system we seem to have in place these days can really demonstrate the priorities someone has in life. i find this has become a major characteristic in choosing a mate.

I put myself in your shoes while I read this, and I was extremely pissed off. Don't do anything stupid, and be there. Don't ask what I'd do.

My ex-girl did the same thing to me. Was going out with me, then started flirting with another guy a lot, then decided we needed a break so that she could be with him. Dammit, she did that to me more than once, and I let it happen, but this time, I told her it was over. I hate how much you over look when you're in love.

i bet not as guilty as taking a 15 yos virginity