If I know that a chick isn't a virgin I cannot get attached to them very much. For example me and my Ex had a great relationship, never had sex, we broke up. I had strong feelings for her, then she lost her virginity to a guy 6 years older she didnt even really know. I instantly lost all feeling for her and cant even carry a conversation with her much anymore..Recently I was having some feelings for a girl who wasnt a virgin. But we never went out and she eventually went out with some guy and did stuff with him. Now I dont find myself attracted to her much at all...Im a Virgin myself right now but I have had some sexual fun with 2 of my girlfriends Ive had...Is it normal chicks have to be Virgins for me to feel deep feelings for them? Im sorry if this doesn't make much sense, as Im not sure how else to of stated this.

Love for virgins over non-virgins (is there a word for that) is normal. Mabe weird, but normal.

Its not for the sex at all. Its not the matter of "I cant screw someone whose not a virgin" Its a mental attachment im talking about.Ive never even had sex.

"Weird" is a strong word, but your preference seems arbitrary. If you yourself can't articulate why you have this preference, you may either get counseling to figure out why, if it bothers you, or you may quit being concerned with it. It's not a huge deal but it may hamper your ability to develop friendships/relationships with perfectly acceptable folks.

It probably stems from the fact that they have loved another. Subconsciously, they aren't pure, and they have loved someone before you, so they can't love you as much. Therefore, you dont really need to reciprocate love.

You're in a position where you se female virgins as pure and right.

But unfortunately, not everyone is going to stay a virgin for long man.

Go out, find a woman...Find a man...Whatever...And lose your V plates!

After that you'll see things differently...Because you'll be on the same level as all the non virgin females.

Hope that helps man.