Yeah, I hang out with this chick all the time and has a boyfriend. People are thinking she likes me to and extent. Her man never really says anything when im around, yet she hits my ass at work? fucked up? yeah i think so also...but its cool to me...

should i keep hanging around. or just find some other friends? ah..

quote:Originally posted by 270341:

Yeah, I hang out with this chick all the time and has a boyfriend. People are thinking she likes me to and extent. Her man never really says anything when im around, yet she hits my ass at work? fucked up? yeah i think so also...but its cool to me...

should i keep hanging around. or just find some other friends? ah..

As long as you don't act on anything. Otherwise, you turn into one of those guys that I LOVE to kick the shit out of.

She has a boyfriend. There is no "SO?" in the matter.

My best friends girlfriend Heather always fucks around with me, even in front of Josh, but me and him know shes just dicking around so it don't matter.

Just stay cool with her, dont try to scam on his chick, thats reason for an ass beating,if things blow up, then your there to catch her.

Dude...just walk away.

First, have some respect for the guy. Dont mack on his girl, that's just rude.

Second, she's obviously the slutty type...has a boyfriend but flirting with other guys. She sounds like girlfriend material. If you get with her, she will hurt you in the end.

quote:Originally posted by Zcon10:

My best friends girlfriend Heather always fucks around with me, even in front of Josh, but me and him know shes just dicking around so it don't matter.

yeah the catching sounds cool, yet she sounds like she can do it all on her own.

She's probably just the type of girl that needs to have more than one guy. The attention whore, affection craving kind.

And he's probably 100% P-whipped.

I've been in that situation, it's awkward and you feel guilty even when you haven't even done anything. Just stay clean, stay honourable and I promise you their relationship won't last much longer.

Or maybe you're just buying way too much into these things...who knows.

-Nocuous

If you're friends with the dude, don't move in on her because "bro's before hoes"

But if he's a cock-smack whose not treating her right, I'd just let things flow. If something happens, then it happens.

If a guy aint treating a chick properly, whats wrong with moving in to do it? Its better for everybody (except the dude, but he'll learn that he can't be a cockhead in future).

EDIT: This is assuming that you find her attractive. If not, just ignore the flirting and it'll stop.

[This message has been edited by Pulse (edited 03-29-2004).]

If you just cheat with her once I'd bash the living shit out of you. If you cheated with her for a while then she broke up with me to continue with you I'd make sure you never fucking walked again.

But I'm a vendictive fuck so that might not be the standard response.

ALL women are attention whores, my friend, to a greater or lesser degree. What's different is the sort of attention they crave. Some may want to be flirted with, others may want to be physically abused, and still others might be sympathy-seekers. The list goes on.

Most of them are complete emotional wrecks, to be honest, and in my experience; either I'm right, or just unlucky. Gay is the way.

But I digress. In regards to your thread, I have this to say: Don't do it. For one, it's a complete violation of male etiquette to mess with someone else's girl, even in seemingly-benign ways. Also, if she's that fucking easy (as most are) even while with a guy, she's going to turn around and do the same shit to you the next time a hot guy comes along. And it will fucking suck. Trust me.

I know it also sucks to like/love a chick who's with somebody else, but I've learned that it is NEVER worth the trouble.

Find another one.

There is, as they say, plenty of fish in the sea.

There's a crop of cunts out there, my friend; a gaggle of gash, a load of labia, a mass of ass, a lot of twat. Utilize it.



[This message has been edited by Infrared (edited 03-29-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



If you just cheat with her once I'd bash the living shit out of you. If you cheated with her for a while then she broke up with me to continue with you I'd make sure you never fucking walked again.

But I'm a vendictive fuck so that might not be the standard response.

I understand where you're coming from, and obviously my post doesn't apply to you because if you'd go to them lengths its obvious you like your girl. Ie you'd be good to her.

I'm talkin about situations where the guy is boring for the chick, or just not treating her right. I don't think cheating is that bad. I mean if the girl actually lets herself become intimate with another guy than its obvious the guy isn't that great with her, otherwise she'd stay with him.

Although after they're married...they shouldn't be touched no matter what. Same with if they have kids. If you do shit then you are honestly cold-hearted.

quote:Originally posted by Pulse:

I understand where you're coming from, and obviously my post doesn't apply to you because if you'd go to them lengths its obvious you like your girl. Ie you'd be good to her.

I'm talkin about situations where the guy is boring for the chick, or just not treating her right. I don't think cheating is that bad. I mean if the girl actually lets herself become intimate with another guy than its obvious the guy isn't that great with her, otherwise she'd stay with him.

Although after they're married...they shouldn't be touched no matter what. Same with if they have kids. If you do shit then you are honestly cold-hearted.

No no no no no. Cheating is NEVER right. That's why they have this little thing called a "break-up".

Yeah but break-ups come after the girl/boy cheats and realises there are a lot of better partners out there for them than the one they are currently with.

I agree that its not 'right', but its not right being with a partner that you are not attracted to as much as someone else. Thats just cheating yourself.

quote:Originally posted by Pulse:

Yeah but break-ups come after the girl/boy cheats and realises there are a lot of better partners out there for them than the one they are currently with.

I agree that its not 'right', but its not right being with a partner that you are not attracted to as much as someone else. Thats just cheating yourself.

And thus, you break up with them if you can't be with them. You do not cheat on them.

who cares if she has a boyfriend? if you can fuck her, fuck her. him having a cheating girlfriend is not your problem. all the little shits acting like they have the balls to do a damn thing about it are jokes. not one of them would do shit, thats just how it is.

quote:Originally posted by Trueborn Vorpal:

As long as you don't act on anything. Otherwise, you turn into one of those guys that I LOVE to kick the shit out of.

She has a boyfriend. There is no "SO?" in the matter.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

who cares if she has a boyfriend? if you can fuck her, fuck her. him having a cheating girlfriend is not your problem. all the little shits acting like they have the balls to do a damn thing about it are jokes. not one of them would do shit, thats just how it is.

Like him, you mean, right?

Listen, 270341, don't be a fuckface and get with this chick. If she has a boyfriend, chances are that he cares about her, and would definately kick your ass if he found out. Then he would be upset at her, and pissed at you. In turn, she would get confused and a whole lot of shit would happen. That's bad, so don't do that.

If you want to get with her, then just talk to her; next time she hits your ass at work or whatever, just try to make it sound serious but joking at the same time, and say, "You know, your boyfriend probably wouldn't like it much if he saw you do that.." or something. See what she says. She might give you a funny face, or giggle, or something like that.. but when you get the chance just try to talk to her.

Male etiquette. Heh heh heh. That's funny.

Let it progress naturally. The only exception would be if she was going to cheat on him with you- you've met the guy, and I think you'd feel pretty shitty if you went through with that. But it doesn't sound like that's likely to happen.

Besides, if it did, and you have no reason to believe he treats her in any way that would allow one to suggest he deserves it (which does happen), you'd know she ain't worth your time. When someone cheats out of anger or vengeance, it's hardly a good thing, but that doesn't make them inherently untrustworthy. If they do it just to do it.. bad news.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

Like him, you mean, right?

Listen, 270341, don't be a fuckface and get with this chick. If she has a boyfriend, chances are that he cares about her, and would definately kick your ass if he found out. Then he would be upset at her, and pissed at you. In turn, she would get confused and a whole lot of shit would happen. That's bad, so don't do that.

If you want to get with her, then just talk to her; next time she hits your ass at work or whatever, just try to make it sound serious but joking at the same time, and say, "You know, your boyfriend probably wouldn't like it much if he saw you do that.." or something. See what she says. She might give you a funny face, or giggle, or something like that.. but when you get the chance just try to talk to her.

Yeah, that chance to talk needs to happen. They argue she told me, however- nothing seems wrong with them together when Ive been around.