Last night I was at a little party, and there was this one girl there who hangs out with me and my friend (A) before. Friend A took her virginity while I was in his computer room a few weeks back. Well at this party she was there and I sat on the bed close to her against her, touching her, flirting around, which I have never with her before, because of course I was with Friend A who was messin around with her. Well it seemed like I could have gotten into it with her, but it was me and another frined (friend B) who has nothing to do with Friend A who were both flirting with her. She had on a miniskirt and a blanket over her and I could have easily started fingering and stuff, but I wasn't sure if I would be doing someone else wrong, and she only had about a 45 minutes left to stay. My question is mostly, how aggressive should a guy be, because I know its a factor if you want some or not.

[This message has been edited by xosfsx (edited 03-28-2004).]

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i'm not sure if i understood that correctly, but i think it depends on what's going on with "A" and the girl now.

you might be obligated to check with him about advancing on the girl first, if he's a good friend, and make sure he is okay with it.

I know hes okay with it he cheated on his current GF to fuck her

quote:Originally posted by xosfsx:

I know hes okay with it he cheated on his current GF to fuck her

friend "A" is a complete ass.

Yes he is, He totally mind fucks all the girls he talks to. His current GF wont let go of him and he abuses her pretty much, and the girl at the party just cant get over him.

This is a touchy issue. Here with my friends it's like this....

If you got laid lets say a month ago, and your friend got laid like 3 months ago you two have met a hot chick you both like her she's into both of you, and it's obvious you're both into her, you (the person that got laid a month ago)happily step aside and let you friend take over. Then he in turn the next time you meet a girl he has to do the same for you.

And I understand all this but my question is how aggrrsive should you be with the GIRL

Most people will say it depends on the girl...complete bullshit. It doesn't matter much at all what her personality type is, because most women have almost identical tolerances for aggression. If she is started to breathe heavier from the flirting/touching, that is a good time to go in for a kiss; they're turned on and expecting a little heat, and their body temperature has probably raised if they are breathing harder. From the kiss, you slowly move your hands around, eventually playing with the breasts, carressing the stomache, and moving south from there. If she shows any sort of rejection from further advancement, move back just a bit and continue in that area a couple minutes before advancing the hands again. If you keep trying and acknowledge and respect their denials, your hand WILL be inside them soon enough.