I'm just making this post to say there's no reason to have sex the first chance you get. I'm 20 I've had a girlfriend for 4 years. Before that I was with a girl for almost 2 years. And I'm a virgin. There's no rush. It doesn't make you "a man". Unless you're a shallow bitch.

I'm not saying everyone should wait as long as i am, but you 14 and 15 year olds who are having sex, why? There's more to relationships than having sex. Based on my expirience in high school, if you have a group of 10 friends and you're all having sex frequently, one of you WILL get a girl pregnant. Let's see some of you 14 year old "men" raise a kid.

I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad. I'm trying to empower you. No matter what your friends or society is telling you, there seriously is NO RUSH TO HAVE SEX. It will be just as good when you are 18,20, married, etc. Sex is sex. There's no reason to force yourself to get it out of the way so early.

theBishop

Thank you for this startling revelation. It's so rare for someone to say that there's nothing wrong with abstinence or having sex. You truly are a revolutionary.

/sarcasm

Virginity for the sake of virginity is meaningless. Sex for the sake of sex is even more meaningless. Don't hop in bed with someone just because the opportunity presents itself, but don't hesitate if it feels right.

I'm a virgin and proud. Anything that distinguishes me from the unwashed masses is cool with me. It's by choice too. There have only been a few girls I've been interested in.

Asumoru I appreciate your sarcasm, truly i do, but how many times do you hear what i said from someone about your age? I heard it a lot growing up but it was always from people older than me who had had sex when they were my age, making their story truly worthless.

with you 100%, bishop.

It is like a game for these little kids. They all try to lose to lose thier virginity as soon as they can. But this is just mostly boys.

i really dont give a fuck if you want to waste some of the best years of your life not fucking. i, unlike you, like sex, therefore i will have it and have it often. enjoy your depravation.

"best years"?

Im guessing you mean your teen years, and everything after that turns to shit?

I don't buy that.

Most of my teen years outright sucked. I had a few GF's for short times (usually because some jelous best friends interfiered), and school sucked major.

I look forwards in life, not focusing on this "best years" bullshit perpetuated by teen culture.

yes, best years. ever see two 60 year olds fuck? not exactly hot and sexy. do it while your dick still works and you arent a wrinkled old slob that doesnt have the body to hate fuck like its meant to be done. like i said, enjoy your depravation. i really dont care if you ever have sex. if that makes you feel superior, then rock on. i like sex, so i have it. i also like good food, so i eat it. i like having a nice car, so i have one. none are necessary to survive, but it sure does make life enjoyable.

I never said I abstained.

I just was pointing on the whole teen years aspect. You make it sound like people being 20 is too old. Like teen years...... and then suddenly it's old age and your dick dont work.

[This message has been edited by Rat_Bastard (edited 03-27-2004).]

ok this is dont now. im sick of going back and forth saying the same damn thing and having your dumbass remain unable to comprehend. if you arent bright enough to understand what "some of the best years of your life" means, then theres nothing i can say here to change that. like i said, waste your life, i really dont care. for me, im going to fuck and im not going to cry about it like a little bitch. im done with that whole teenage thing now and looking back, theres not one sexual experience id get rid of. the only regret i have is not fucking a few girls i should have but was a douche bag virgin like yourself.

Im not saying its bad!

Nobody says its bad. I don't give a shit. Go you!

I was not attacking you in any way. I was just saying that people think their teen years have to be the best thing of their lives and here is nothing after.

I lost mine when I was 16. I knew of all the of the consequences that could happen. I would take care of it my parents even told me "you're going to raise a kid if you get a girl pregnent, end of story". I knew if I did though, the school I go to allows pregnent girls to attend and have an infant lab for kids up to 3 years old to be in. Like a free day-care, you can take it for a class. If I had a kid in there I would have that be one of my classes

quote:Originally posted by theBishop:

I'm just making this post to say there's no reason to have sex the first chance you get. theBishop

apart from that it is fun, but being a virgin you wouldnt know so shut up until you do

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

i like sex, so i have it. i also like good food, so i eat it. i like having a nice car, so i have one. none are necessary to survive



actually, eating, surprisingly, keeps you alive and sex does lead to survival because if noone had sex then there would be no babies meaning the human race would become extinct

I'm 100% with you theBishop. Today's youth's ideals are pretty sad.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

i really dont give a fuck if you want to waste some of the best years of your life not fucking. i, unlike you, like sex, therefore i will have it and have it often. enjoy your depravation.

"Best years"? HA! The teen age years suck. The years as an adult is the best. Why? Because just about everything is legal.

You have a lot to learn.

AS88

if i ever refer to my teen highschool years as the best remind me to kill msyelf.

quote:Originally posted by Nerd Fangs:



actually, eating, surprisingly, keeps you alive and sex does lead to survival because if noone had sex then there would be no babies meaning the human race would become extinct



another person who has trouble with reading. GOOD food. see that word there? dont just skip over it, it means something. food is a necessity, how it tastes is another thing all together. sex is not entirely necessary. in this day and age we do have artificial insemination. overlooking that, sex for reproductive purposes hardly needs to be frequent or enjoyable. furthermore, sex is not necessary for you yourself to survive, simply the species.

quote:Originally posted by American Socialist 88:

I'm 100% with you theBishop. Today's youth's ideals are pretty sad.

"Best years"? HA! The teen age years suck. The years as an adult is the best. Why? Because just about everything is legal.

You have a lot to learn.

AS88



im legal, i remember my teenage years very. even though you are too stupid to understand the word "some", my teenage years were right up there with my "legal adult" ones. infact, i may have had more fun from 16-19. legality doesnt mean shit, bills do.

"virginity" is a meaninless concept. NOTHING is "lost" as the result of making love to another person! So you remain a virgin after, just as you were before.

Just as a precaution, however, I sing like a "virgin" into my hairbrush every night, which keeps me a virgin forever. (hee hee)!!

Love, Venus.

I think that just makes you the subject of mental evaluation.

I lost my virginity about four months ago, I'm about 4 months short of 16, but I've never been in too much of a rush to have sex though. I've never gone into a relationship just wanting sex, and I've only had sex with one girl, even though it was many, many times. I kinda saw it as, when it happens, it happens, that's all there is too it.

I think a lot of teenagers have sex because they actually want to have sex. The urge is a biological imperative. Hormones are raging. Those who "value their viginity" (*snicker* see p-pinay's wisdom) may prefer not to know this, but sex feels good! Of course, for some, it feels even better with someone you care about it and all that.

Luckily, perceptions change as you age, too. Sex becomes better and better, especially if you find a wonderful mate with whom you can explore, and who's there whenever the urge strikes! I notice that those who hang onto their teenage mentality about sex become argumentative malcontents.

deadlycindy, you rock hardcore!

Just thought you should know that. Pardon the use of my asinine teenage slang.

Have sex and you might change your mind

Well, I think everyone would agree sex feels good. It's just that some people would rather wait to actually have sex the first time with someone they give two shits about.

The "value", placed on virginity isn't a bad thing, it just shows how an individual would rather not have a meaningless fuck for the sake of self-gratification, independant of any respect or emotional attachment.

I am a virgin. Pretty much because I haven't felt like putting any work into getting with a girl. It doesn't bother me, I am not "saving" myself, but I also don't feel like going out and fucking some slut. Just waiting for the right girl I guess.

quote:Originally posted by theBishop:

I'm just making this post to say there's no reason to have sex the first chance you get. I'm 20 I've had a girlfriend for 4 years. Before that I was with a girl for almost 2 years. And I'm a virgin. There's no rush. It doesn't make you "a man". Unless you're a shallow bitch.

I'm not saying everyone should wait as long as i am, but you 14 and 15 year olds who are having sex, why? There's more to relationships than having sex. Based on my expirience in high school, if you have a group of 10 friends and you're all having sex frequently, one of you WILL get a girl pregnant. Let's see some of you 14 year old "men" raise a kid.

I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad. I'm trying to empower you. No matter what your friends or society is telling you, there seriously is NO RUSH TO HAVE SEX. It will be just as good when you are 18,20, married, etc. Sex is sex. There's no reason to force yourself to get it out of the way so early.

theBishop

Umm ok.. you just contradicted yourself.. and you're wrong. Sex isn't the same when you have it. It's better when you're older than 14-16. And as to your last line.. "There's no reason to force yourself to get it out of the way so early." I don't remember anyone forcing themselves to get sex out of the way.. Sex is done with free will.. okay I'm just going to stop now before I run on about this stupid post.

You think there arent kids "forcing" themselves to have sex. Fine. Maybe Forcing isn't the right word, but there are a lot of kids that just want to impress their friends and they'll fuck the first thing that lets them because....who knows?

My bigger problem with having sex @ 14/15 is by the time these kids are 18/19 they're doing some really fucked up shit. I'm in college now and i see the results of kids having sex too early on a weekly basis.

quote:Originally posted by [G-Prime]:

It's better when you're older than 14-16.

says who? theres good and bad with both old and young.

quote:Originally posted by theBishop:



My bigger problem with having sex @ 14/15 is by the time these kids are 18/19 they're doing some really fucked up shit. I'm in college now and i see the results of kids having sex too early on a weekly basis.

define fucked up shit, maybe they're enjoying/exploring their sexuality. Unless it's a genuinely unhealthy practice, like rimming or scat, it's probably more "fucked up shit" because it's a taboo rather than anything bad. You can be a virgin if you want doesn't bother me but if you don't want to be judged you shouldn't be passing judgement on others.

I hope you guys realize that theres a difference between making love and just having sex. Shit when your a teen, you dont know what love is, but you know what lust is. Its the hormones that drive people wild to have sex when they are young. But after you get over the lust, then you can focus on the love and meaning. Your too young ot know what love is when your a teenager, so you might as well fuck as much as you'd like. Chicks go into heat every month. Think about it Mr. Abstinence.