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 #1 
Old 2004-03-26, 23:01
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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In the past I was a pussy. I would never tell a girl what i thought about her. Well now I do and Im caring less and less and I told my neighbor to tell this girl at school I thought she was hott, then later that night at a school function she looked at me in the eyes for like 5 second, i looked away even and looked back. Now I know this seems wow big 5 seconds, but its different when it happends to you it seems a long time. And then she told my friend about it and told her I was cute. NOW I swore to myself I wouldnt use the internet again for advice but one more question...Should I try talking to her? How would I approach her, never met her before, like a good way to. Should I make a special effor or be plain myself, which can be boring heh. I dont know.
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Old 2004-03-26, 23:05
N6193J N6193J is offline
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Just go up to her a and ask "Do you like dinosaurs?" No kidding, at the very least it will get her lauging. Maybe she'll even let her guard down a little bit and be more open to you. After that, just talk about whatever pops into your head.
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Old 2004-03-27, 02:53
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Yeah, making an ass out of yourself to get a luagh is always a great way to break the ice. Don't worry, you'll be fine.
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Old 2004-03-27, 21:29
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I thinmk I might do that dinosaur thing. I read you put that in another thread to haha. So I should just go up to her out of no where, say hey whats up...little small talk...then hit her with "So...do you like dinosaurs?" shell be like HAH what? Ill be like aww nothin
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Old 2004-03-27, 22:13
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WHAT THE FUCK stop wasting space dipshit.

as for the dinosaur thing DO IT!
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Old 2004-03-27, 23:39
SARDONICPILLOW SARDONICPILLOW is offline
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it would have been better if you had told her yourself instead of your friend. but i guess it's okay, because you're both probably 12 or 13 or so, and at that age it's acceptable, i guess.
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Old 2004-03-28, 02:16
Durell Durell is offline
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Love is Gratt?
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Old 2004-03-28, 04:00
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Don't do the dinosaurs thing. It depends on your age group too. But I know alot of chicks will think you're an idiot/immature freak if you ask them something dumb like that. Just.. basically don't ask advice. You're already letting yourself think you know nothing, and can't do this by yourself. Just go for it, and talk to her. Be yourself, and talk about things she's interested in. The only way you'll get better is by trying, and learning. You can read all the advice in the world on chicks, but until you put that knowledge into practical application, so to speak, you'll never get anywhere. Hope that helps.

ps: Go feed yourself into a wood chipper, midnightwolf4000.
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Old 2004-03-28, 05:01
DeAtHsTyLe DeAtHsTyLe is offline
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Neg-hit time.

Don't abuse the force.
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Old 2004-03-28, 05:54
N6193J N6193J is offline
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Dinosaur thing's worked for me with no negative results.[G-Prime], maybe the girls you know have no sense of humor whatsoever? Either that, or are unwilling to admit that they'd find something as stupid as this funny?
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Old 2004-03-28, 06:03
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if i were a girl i would love the dinoaur thing.
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Old 2004-03-28, 22:17
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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Right basically I can talk to girls I just have trouble breaking down the barrier or having her let he guard down. I know i can do it, I just want to do it the right way
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Old 2004-03-28, 22:21
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:

it would have been better if you had told her yourself instead of your friend. but i guess it's okay, because you're both probably 12 or 13 or so, and at that age it's acceptable, i guess.

No I'm 16 I just never never had to meet new girls, since I went to a old school my whole life and now Im at a new one with 1300 more kids that my old one. My old graduating class was 40 thank you.
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Old 2004-03-29, 22:27
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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Of course I seen her a few times today, passed by when she was with a couple friends. Of couse I didnt say anything. "Oh Hey whats up, we dont know each other but your cute"Phhht
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Old 2004-03-30, 02:25
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quote:Originally posted by xosfsx:

Of course I seen her a few times today, passed by when she was with a couple friends. Of couse I didnt say anything. "Oh Hey whats up, we dont know each other but your cute"Phhht

I think thats what you should say
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Old 2004-03-30, 02:48
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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I think I might do that + more after reading the online How to Be a Playa guide. w00t
 
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