Short and sweet. We had sex. lasted about a min. I got my nut out. She wanted more. Foreplay. I was kinda hard but not really. Then when I got on top it went limp.. Same thing happend the next day. I guess I'm not in the mood or something. Help? I know it's not much info but help the best you can.

How old are you? This is a problem most young men have. When you masturbate, try to prolong it for a long time, but still going at it steady. Also, if you want to do it again, have her suck it, hand job, foot job (my personal favorite) or any number of extra kinky things that will get you going again.

It's not up to just you to get your dick hard, its her job too. Also, with her not doing anything, and expecting you to make it hard yourself adds pressure, which just makes it worse. No pressure man, she can wait a minute to get fucked again.

It's not a not in the mood thing, it's just guys aren't built for that. Guys are meant to get it up, blow their load, and be done.

when you think you are close to time, start going really slow. Or stop masturbating/only do it every so often. Your stamina will increase.

The best thing to do is going to be keep the foreplay going for a while. Make it awesome for her. Give her mindblowing oral. That way, she wont noice/wont really care that the sex is short and sweet.

If you are going to be a man...some guys wont do it and it pisses off girls...go down on her or finger her after sex. Just tell her to give you a minute... after a little while of this, get her to get you hard, and then your off, and she hasn't spent any time without pleasure of some kind or another.

Put time in at the beginning instead of trying to tack it on at the end. If you get her almost ready to orgasm before you actually have sex, you won't need to go as long, and she won't mind because you got the job done. If you actually get a girl to orgasm, it's the same as it is for you:

time to quit

^What are you talking about? My orgasms are a prelude to sex!

For most guys, cumming is the end of sex, like alone said.

If you jump right into sex and only last a few minutes, of course your girl is going to be unsatisfied. You have to do that before pentration.

Foreplay should last hours in my opinion. Why wouldn't you want to play around before having sex? Get her to orgasm a few times, that way once you do have sex it'll be the icing on the cake.

Some guys can get hard a few minutes after busting, most cannot. It's something out of your control. So make sure she's satisfied before you have sex than get yours. If you do it in that order, after sex you can relax instead of worrying about getting hard and all that mess.

Sorry Mojo, his post was oddly punctuated. It sounds to me like he tried to give "Foreplay" after he had already had sex with her and finished himself. I was trying to say, he should give her Foreplay before sex so she's sure to come when they finally have sex.

[This message has been edited by theBishop (edited 03-27-2004).]

Do ur thing at ur own speed and if u go too f ast then too bad cos shes just too slow.It should be about ur pleasure as much as hers.

if ( which i dont so much cause i dont get in to the whole sex thing) i do blow before she comes, i finish her off with my fingers and my tounge. Thats all i can contribute.