Ok so heres the situation, I have a gf who is pretty, cute and friendly and all that stuff, but i am no longer interested in her, i am not really interested in any others either, I just have more important stuff to attend to. Any way my gf has a bit of a reputation for being a skank (slut) and no one really likes her, it has affected my reputation and just been a real headache, now i want to dump her, she is also jelous of me because i am friends with other chicks who we do stuff with. Any ideas.

well, if you're not interested in her, don't drag the relationship any longer, it'll only hurt both of you in the long run. end it now before you start feeling bitter towards each other. also if she can't handle you having female friends and get's jealous, that's just gonna drive you both crazy.

just end it now before this whole thing blows up in your face.

Just dump her and move on!

Just tell her the reasons why you want to break it off with her then say it's over!

Simple!

HEY!! Reputation is nothing. Those are all rumours you have to just get over it. I can pretty much guess that it is the main reason you don't like this girl. becuase your getting shti from everyone else. If its realy not worth it, then its not worth it. But I think you shoudl think long and hard before you make any decisions. And unless youve seen her do anything to make herself be "skanky", you have no reason to judge her. If it has to do with her past its as simple as this,"People change". Either way, I bet she really likes you and its going to hurt her if you do break up with her. You can't go thru life caring about what other people think about YOUR life.. after all it is YOUR life, and you can live it however you want to live it. Either way good luck, keep yall's heads high.

I done it but now she is really sad and crying and stuff and thinks she has no friends.

Good on ya fire_fly, it was only like a few weeks ago when you picked this chick up wasnt it ? was this the one that was with one of your friends or some thing ?

~30-06~

Tell her pretty much what you just said to us. I'm not that interested in you anymore, I'm so buisy.

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Good on ya fire_fly, it was only like a few weeks ago when you picked this chick up wasnt it ? was this the one that was with one of your friends or some thing ?

~30-06~

U hit it right on the head, I feel bad about what i done now beacause i did love her but up until a few days ago at a school dance i sorta flirted and stuff with some other chicks she got jelous and tryed to show them her love and kissed me, I kissed her back but from then i had been an asshole and wasent talking to her and stuff, I think i followed my dick or something, any way when she rang up last night we spoke for about an hour about the usaul stuff then she asked if i loved her anymore, I went silent and told her the truth and said no, she dident take it too well and started crying, So to cut it short i dumped her, and she was sad, she then started complaining about how she dident have manny friends and no 1 liked her, ( witch isnt true)I dident know what to say so i said u would be ok, Now i feel like a asshole for what i did and dont know what to do, I still dont love her, But today i had found out from one of her friends/ mine too that she was going to dump me, that took a bit of the worry of but she is still sad and worried about her friends, any ideas