This is the thing people, this girl seems to like me and i dont really know her at all....... this may sound weird but i met her threw one of my cs friends. I wasint the one who contacted her but she contacted me. She got my sn threw my cs friends chat. She seems to like me or something and wants me to call her but....... i dont think long distance relationships would work at all. She keeps saying how she wants me to come visit her this summer because il be in the same state that she lives in...... i dont know like i dont want to break her heart or anything.... i havent called her and she seems pretty upset about that... what should i do in this situation?

well, you definitely shouldn't be leading her on in anyway. you should tell her how you feel, that you don't think you know each other well enough for a relationship, which brings me to ask, have you two actually met? it doesn't sound like it. and long distance relationships are hard to keep unless you really feel strongly for that person, sure, the more you miss each other the more you want to see each other too but the absence will eventually drive you insane.

in this case, like i said, tell her what you feel/think about all of this and ask her what she really wants. leading on/continuing what you're doing now = bad idea.

don't do it. they do not work, and you're just forcing yourself to go long periods at a time with no ass.

is that fun? no sir.

No weve never met before...... she wants me to come out and see her this summer........ I should just tell her flat out, i think she has feelings for me but i dont have any feelings for her so it wouldnt work out. This is actually kind of funny because girls that have feelings for me i dont show any feelings back..... and when i show feelings for a true girl that i like she doesnt show anything back.... weird eh?

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No weve never met before...... she wants me to come out and see her this summer........ I should just tell her flat out, i think she has feelings for me but i dont have any feelings for her so it wouldnt work out. This is actually kind of funny because girls that have feelings for me i dont show any feelings back..... and when i show feelings for a true girl that i like she doesnt show anything back.... weird eh?



ok, it's kinda freaky that she has feelings for you even tho you've never met and don't seem to really know each other. she probably just likes the idea of you anyway and will eventually figure it out herself or by you telling her.

two words: RUN AWAY! lol

I got an email out of the blue from a girl from the Us last November, I live in ireland by the way. Anyway she came her to se me a few weeks ago and we are now engaged! The long distance thing can work if you want it to.

it's true that long distance can be worth it, however, I am assuming you're not in college yet and given that you haven't met this girl before it doesn't seem to me like you're going to look back on this as the one who got away.