Well lately ive been kinda wondering about all this stuff that happens when me and my best friend hang out together, first of all im totaly straight, ive had several girlfriends and have had sex more times then i can count, my friend is also totaly straight he's had a couple girlfriends and has had sex a few time too im sure, but me and him are always kinda touchy feely around each other not in a gay way but like putting arm around shoulder for a few seconds while walkin along, patting/rubbing backs, and a occasionaly when i spend the night at his house after weve been laughin hysterically at some hentai for a couple hours we fall asleep on the couch together , usually against one another, or once I woke up sleeping next to him in his bed before and ya stuff like that, now before i go any further my friends korean, and In korea in there culture, there all touchy feely like that i guess even the guys, I see them do this kinda stuff all the time, and i dont have a problem with it, im half irish half german by the way. Now Im not askin if im gay cause i know im not and i know my friends not, but i do know this is what probbaly is labeled as gay activity, I was just kinda curious if anyone else has this kind of "closeness with there friends" or if this sounds totaly bizare.

gay? no. Comfortable with your sexuality and your friendship? yes.

Think about this, guys on sports teams shower naked together, that's not gay. Football players slap eachother on the ass and that's not gay. Maybe some people would think that was acting "gay" but some people need labotomies.

I don't think it's that weird. If the morning you woke up in his bed happened to follow a night of wild sex then it migh be down homosexual lane, but I'm guessing that didn't happen. I know some people who are like that and if you arn't doing it out of sexual attraction I see nothing wrong with it. And even if you are, I still don't.

Misfit, nekkid man showers and ass slapping for 'team morale' is the gayest thing since sliced gayness.

That's a little guy-on-guy for my tastes, but if you don't feel like there's anything wrong with it, there probably isn't.

quote:Originally posted by hand_made_attrocity:

Well lately ive been kinda wondering about all this stuff that happens when me and my best friend hang out together, first of all im totaly straight, ive had several girlfriends and have had sex more times then i can count, my friend is also totaly straight he's had a couple girlfriends and has had sex a few time too im sure, but me and him are always kinda touchy feely around each other not in a gay way but like putting arm around shoulder for a few seconds while walkin along, patting/rubbing backs, and a occasionaly when i spend the night at his house after weve been laughin hysterically at some hentai for a couple hours we fall asleep on the couch together , usually against one another, or once I woke up sleeping next to him in his bed before and ya stuff like that, now before i go any further my friends korean, and In korea in there culture, there all touchy feely like that i guess even the guys, I see them do this kinda stuff all the time, and i dont have a problem with it, im half irish half german by the way. Now Im not askin if im gay cause i know im not and i know my friends not, but i do know this is what probbaly is labeled as gay activity, I was just kinda curious if anyone else has this kind of "closeness with there friends" or if this sounds totaly bizare.



i think thats cool , i agree with misfit, that not gay yur just relly really comfortable.

quote:Originally posted by grasshopa:

Misfit, nekkid man showers and ass slapping for 'team morale' is the gayest thing since sliced gayness.

quote:Originally posted by The Misfit:

Maybe some people would think that was acting "gay" but some people need labotomies

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I guess you could say misfit post powned him...

Ya see, it is a play on words and when you look at it the right- -...

I do that sometimes, but me and all my guy friends are like brother. We have had so much shit happen to us it's crazy.

Yeah and 8th grade I had that happen I fell asleep on my friends bed, his room was in the basement at the time. I woke up with him next to me. It didn't bother me I could understand why, because his room was fuckin' trashed. We were shootin his bbgun at glass shit.

It doesn't seem that gay to me as long as it's in a complete hetero way. It just shows closeness.

Well, if you say it wasnt in a gay-ish way, then it wasnt. Dont worry about it.

Me and my friends have been through alot, been friends since we were born basically. We arent all touchy touchy sorta, but we have shared beds before. But that was because we all passed out..

I wouldnt worry about it bieng gay.as you said its part of your friends culture. If you feel uncomfortable, you should tell him. He is probably doing it out of habbit.