heres kinda how it went....

chainy: I like you more than a friend.

chainy's crush: I would like to get to know you more before I can say the same thing about you.

I have no idea what she's talking about! I thougth she really liked me and later that day someone even told me that she liked me but i dont know what to think.

I've known her for about 3 months now and she used to sit next to me in this one class but the stupid teacher moved our seats. Anyways, i thought she might have liked me because one day she asked me all these questions like "do you wanna have kids someday" and "who was your last girlfriend". She also kept asking me about porn.....

Probably she likes u but she wants to take it slow.

Do u know whether she has had bad relationships/experiences in the past? Cause that could be why.

Also do u know if she's a player?

Ummm...us girls have our own language. But the thing is, that was in straight boy-english. Plain and simple, she wants to hang out with you before you two get any closer. She doesnt know if she likes you like that, but she likes you as a person for sure.

What does it mean? It means that she would like to get to know you more before she can say the same thing about you. It's unhealthy and often futile to attempt to "decipher" female-speak. So take it at face value until she says otherwise.

As usual, I can't say it better than AloneAndBroken!! What the girl said to you is girl's language, (call it "code" if you want to), meaning...."I'm feeling something too...but SLOW DOWN".

So slow down, and you'll probably be there to enjoy a good ending!! Love, Venus.

Two words: HANG OUT! She likes you, but she just needs to get comfortable around you before take the "next step". Things will progress if you just spend some time with her. Go to the movies, iceskating, walks, whatever. Just don't get stuck in the friend zone. Keep the sexual tension going. You'll be fine.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

What does it mean? It means that she would like to get to know you more before she can say the same thing about you. It's unhealthy and often futile to attempt to "decipher" female-speak. So take it at face value until she says otherwise.

Bingo!

Don't try to understand women and what they say...Because you just won't!

Trying to understand someone who doesn't even understand themself is like going on a hunt for rocking-horse shit!

Take it how she says it mate!

Just some advice; shape up your syntax a bit.

"I like you more than a friend"? In all honesty, I'd stick your ass on the friend ladder too; at least for awhile.

Not flaming you; constructively criticizing you.

And find someone else, she's a flake. First she's alluding to something higher with you, and then when you go for it, she sticks you back down?

Fickle, dumb bitch, like most of them. Next!

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You need to go take her out somehwere asap man! Advice: Go somewhere where your not forced to talk,(ie. movies, bowling, lazer tag, arcade) You need to go to some type of activity. Unless your a talker, I know I'm not. If you can make conversation really well with girls then a good date could be the mall. Anyway, good luck with this one.

I've dated girls that originaly had no interest in me at all. You have to swoon them into liking you. Take her out, treat her right, then bang her. Thank you crush.

EDIT: Oh, and she meant what she said dude. Stop reading into whe women say so much.

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quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

What does it mean? It means that she would like to get to know you more before she can say the same thing about you. It's unhealthy and often futile to attempt to "decipher" female-speak. So take it at face value until she says otherwise.



i didnt see that coming, are you serious, hehehe i thought it meant, that she thought he was gross, and just dismised him. Oh well