So a few days ago i went to the movie theatre, theres this really hot girl who works there, she had black hair, cute face, kinda big but not to big. I go to the movies a lot and i always see her, She seems cool and I have talked to her before, I picked up an application and she came over and asked me what i needed and talked to me about how cool it is working there.

She seems really nice, and i kinda want to talk to her, but shes always at work and i can never talk to her cause ill be in line and then there are people behind me, I have waited there and i she seems like she works ther a lot, but i never see her not working.

How should I go about this? Its not like i can just step her aside and talk to her.

questions and comments appriciated.

Grr.. damn fingers.. keep typing my username as Mahimaku...

Ask her, plain and simple, ask her if you two could get together at a park or something so you can chat it up.

That's what I would do.....if I wasn't so introverted.

quote:Originally posted by Mahimaki:

Grr.. damn fingers.. keep typing my username as Mahimaku...

Ask her, plain and simple, ask her if you two could get together at a park or something so you can chat it up.

That's what I would do.....if I wasn't so introverted.



yea but at the same time if she says no then I will feel kinda strange since i see her there liek once a week.

It would just be better to go talk to her and invite her somewhere. If she rejects you, she'll probably feel as awkward as you do when you see eachother. Luckily enough, though, you aren't the best of friends.

quote:Originally posted by xannex:

It would just be better to go talk to her and invite her somewhere. If she rejects you, she'll probably feel as awkward as you do when you see eachother. Luckily enough, though, you aren't the best of friends.

good point thanks,

Invite her to the movies....or you know dont do that.

As you are getting your ticket, talk to her for a minute...Then give her the cash...Then give her a pieceof paper with your number on it!

Write somehting along the lines of "Wanna go out some time?...Call me #######. <your name here>"

Easy!

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

As you are getting your ticket, talk to her for a minute...Then give her the cash...Then give her a pieceof paper with your number on it!

Write somehting along the lines of "Wanna go out some time?...Call me #######. <your name here>"

Easy!



umm yeah ive tried almost everything when it comes to asking out girls, i tried that in a restraund I wrote it put in with my tip and then i forgot my hightimes in there, it wsa akward. really akward.

How about while you're buying your ticket (alone), you say something along the lines of, "Hey, are you still gonna be here when this movie's out?"

If she says she will, tell her if she wants to hang out and chat for a bit before she goes home. If she says no, ...eh I don't know. But just hope she says yes

At the theater I go to, there's a Starbucks right next to it and Atlanta Bread Co., this good little sub place, so if there are any places real close to the theater, ask her if she wants to hang out there. Just be real smooth about it; shouldn't be too hard.

Good luck.

The way to do this is with utmost confidence, yet you must also do it with the finess that makes you seem respectful. Something along the lines of:

You: "So hey, when do you get off of work?"

Her: "Such hour"

You: "Oh good, we can hang out then"

If she says that she can't make it or something, don't be discouraged.

Her: "I'm sorry, I can't make it"

You: "That's fine, how about during the weekend?"

Then this phase of the conversation should be the most important. If beyond this point she still gives subtle hints about her unavailability, drop it. Maybe she's just shy, or maybe she doesn't like you. However, end the conversation firmly, with confidence, but add in a comment that makes it seem like you care for her (eg, a good night, take care, etc)

Her: "I'm sorry, I can't do it next weekend either."

You: "No problem. You seem pretty buisy, so I'll just leave you be. Take care."

You still might have a chance. If she was just shy, she'll have to spend a day or two to gather up her self-esteem and the courage for her to accept your plans when you come back to ask her again. Let a week pass by, and then come back.

You: "Hi again, how are you?"

Her: "Fine, and you?"

You: "I'm great. Hey, so are you still buisy this weekend? Let's go out for dinner"

Her: "Oh, I had a sudden change in plans. I'd love to go out for dinner this weekend."