When a girl and you first started kissing/making out, what else would you do? Like my gf and I make out and stuff, but I dont know what to do next, I dont know if I should grab her boobs or what? We have been going out for a few weeks and I feel that I should start doing something else, but I dont know what she would do if I started fondling her boobs or whatever else. I dont even know if I do start to feel her boobs, would I do it with the clothes on, or put my hand up under her shirt? I really dont want to ask her if she wants me to do something else or not.

Anyone?

do what feels right, if you really have to ask then maybe you shouldn't be doing anything at all.

Just rub her boobs *accidentally* and say sorry and see what she says. If she's all, it's ok and smiles man, start rubbing them.

quote:Originally posted by devilsAngel:

do what feels right, if you really have to ask then maybe you shouldn't be doing anything at all.

i agree. but maybe try and make the making out more intense and maybe try to lay down on top of her while doing it, then move on to rubbing your body against hers. you should know the answer to this question.

kiss her and whilst kissing her put your hands

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see what she does, if she likes it start kind of moving your hands from her head and like all around, Girls like a guy who can do more than one thing at a time, it takes a lot of concentration.



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Im the type that doesnt want to make the girl feel uncomfortable because I want her to feel fine with me, and I dont want to have her slap me or something, so thats why I ask. When a girl and I start to get sexual I keep saying to myself in my head that I am doing this and this wrong, she prolly hates me now.

quote:Originally posted by ripple:

Im the type that doesnt want to make the girl feel uncomfortable because I want her to feel fine with me, and I dont want to have her slap me or something, so thats why I ask. When a girl and I start to get sexual I keep saying to myself in my head that I am doing this and this wrong, she prolly hates me now.

did u like my drawing?

yeah I used to be afraid of that, im 18 and i used to liek younger girls like 15 and 16, I was always afraid that they might tell that i did something, like molested them or rape. Dont worry, the girl will let you know if she wants it, Im guessing she does. You can tell, shell kinda pull away, if she acts suprised, stop, look at her and ask her if its ok. Girls like it if you ask things like that. I bet she will say yeah.

Awesome, thanks for your help. And yes, I love your drawing.

The trick is to slide your "wandering" hands...slowly. That's all. Dude, It's about making her feel good when your holding her, kissing her. Another great way is just taking flirting to the next level. Pinch her nipple, squeeze her ass.... ah man i cant wait to get me some heh