we met in a cafe and she introduced me to her new bf. She went to the restrooms, he looked at her ass and said to me "you fucked that bitch very good". I felt so disgusted I left without giving a reason. Later on that day she called me. I didn´t say what happened, I just said someone called me and I had to go. She said "I know that something´s wrong, you didn´t like him. Alright, I´ll diss him. You knew what was good for me for 5 years, you´ll always know what is good for me."

Any suggestions?

How long have you been broken up?

She seems like she really wants your relationship with her back, which is understandable, you went out for 5 years. It's almost like she doesnt care if her new relationship is over, given that she is telling him and you how great and godly you were.

You should talk to her straight up. Just tell her that your relationship is over. You dont appreciate the akward situation that you were put in with her boyfriend, and all though you were glad to here that you were a good boyfriend at the time, she needs to accept that that was then, and now you are not together anymore.

in may it´ll be a year since I left her. Well, decided even our fuckbuddy-relationship has no future. After her being anorexic 2 times and one suicide attempt, I don´t know what to say anymore. Her mother calls me when she´s going out, so I know where not to go. She tries to be best friend with my best friend etc.

So what? A psychiatrist can´t be my only hope ...

Tell the bitch to get fucked and leave you alone!

Simple as man!

Tell her what her bf said.

why would he say that?

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

How long have you been broken up?

She seems like she really wants your relationship with her back, which is understandable, you went out for 5 years. It's almost like she doesnt care if her new relationship is over, given that she is telling him and you how great and godly you were.

You should talk to her straight up. Just tell her that your relationship is over. You dont appreciate the akward situation that you were put in with her boyfriend, and all though you were glad to here that you were a good boyfriend at the time, she needs to accept that that was then, and now you are not together anymore.

And if that doesnt work...kill'er!

quote:Originally posted by Mr. Self Destruct:

Tell her what her bf said.

this would make her think I have some feelings for her, no?

quote:Originally posted by SupaAznPirate:

why would he say that?

oh, he asked as well if she swallows ...

quote:Originally posted by slasher_13:

And if that doesnt work...kill'er!

meh, she´ll do that anyway herself one day ...

Why don't you just stop hanging out with her. Get her out of your life. She is not going to cause you anything but greif.