I finally realized friends arnt so damn important after al. It may seem very important as a teenager to have friends, but trust me its not.You can live without them right? ,You have your whole life ahead of you to meet wonderful new people and visit wonderful places. Everyone that was an asshole to you will look back and think "Why did i give him/her shit? What was the point?". I know the whole popularity thing scares you when you think about it but it wont matter when the popular people finaly mature and see there's no point to it anymore.You will be able to live your life how you like.Youl have a job, drive a car, go to heaps of paries. And youl look back and laugh at how paranoid you were at everything as a teenager. Im 16 and i cant wait to see what life has in store for me

I just felt like sharing that with you people cos i know alot of you people are depressed

So if you ever think your life is shit and will stay that way, it wont

Thanks for the input, it will be appreciated around here. As for myself I have never really worried about social status or friends, despite human nature to be around a group or to have company.

you couldn't have said it better it took me years and it wasn't until i ditched all my friends that i start to like life, i realized friends can pull you down in life, it's hard to find good friends but they are out there

the saying that you can only count your real friends on one hand is so true

quote:Originally posted by vanillalick:

you couldn't have said it better it took me years and it wasn't until i ditched all my friends that i start to like life, i realized friends can pull you down in life, it's hard to find good friends but they are out there

the saying that you can only count your real friends on one hand is so true

Its comforting to know that someone truly understands me.I agree with you on everything and its good to hear your happy

quote:Originally posted by SmokedSalmon:

I finally realized friends arnt so damn important after al. It may seem very important as a teenager to have friends, but trust me its not.You can live without them right? ,You have your whole life ahead of you to meet wonderful new people and visit wonderful places. Everyone that was an asshole to you will look back and think "Why did i give him/her shit? What was the point?". I know the whole popularity thing scares you when you think about it but it wont matter when the popular people finaly mature and see there's no point to it anymore.You will be able to live your life how you like.Youl have a job, drive a car, go to heaps of paries. And youl look back and laugh at how paranoid you were at everything as a teenager. Im 16 and i cant wait to see what life has in store for me

I just felt like sharing that with you people cos i know alot of you people are depressed

So if you ever think your life is shit and will stay that way, it wont

You have to have friends, people with out friends are people who snap, friends keep you sane, You dont have to be popular, if your in hs. I have a select group of friends. I know everyone the popular kids and the losers, but then i have my real friends.im 18 and i graduate soon, i figure when i move ill meet a lot of new friends so i am trying to distance my self from my select friends.