Theres this girl I've been head over heels for, for the past 2 years. I finally got the balls to tell her about it yestetday. And for 2 hours I spilled myself out to her, she didn't say a word or anything. For 24 hours I stayed up thinking about her, and what she'd say. Today I asked her friend and she refused to tell me anything they talked about. I suppose they figured it be funny to dangle the truth in front of me and just hit me with it and take it back, rather than just telling me the truth.

I found out today she's off guy's because she liked a guy, and it turned out that he liked some other girl, and it really chrushed her. What really pisses me off is that I pretty much have the same problem but shes to self-absorbed in her self-pity and whallow to see it. If shes so hurt, she should understand how I feel. The really shitty thing about everything is that I had to find this stuff from her friend. And the worst thing about this is I'm might be in love wiht her, and I told her, and she still hasn't even given me a fuckin' no or anything.

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Honestly, I think the confession of love thing might be what scared her off... two hours... gotta commend her for that.

I think that this should have started off as a friendship and let it grow closer then talk about the love.

As far as I am concerned, the long confessions of love and balcony serenades, as romantic as those must seem, they arent really a hit in our modern times.

ack, sorry, not tryin to get your hopes up by adding another post number to it, but your topic question was something I didnt address.

Go for it, but ween it, like you ween a kid off the sippy cup. Take it slowly, that kind of rejection that she had, especially if she tossed her heart into it, she may still have the shrine to him in her heart.

:::Clicks heel's three times and spins in a circe:::



Ah I kinda wish deadlycyndy or some of the other higher ups that I used to see in here would come to this...

You might want to make your topic sound more poignant to attract the brains here like I did before.

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[B]ack,

:::Clicks heel's three times and spins in a circe:::B]

i told her something baout the heel clicky thing. And we'll we are or i guess we're friends, cause she hasn't said anything to me.

huh?.... the heel clicking didnt have anything to do with the advice... unless you want to let it go on a wing and a prayer...

heh, sorry.

quote:Originally posted by Battousai:

Theres this girl I've been head over heels for, for the past 2 years. I finally got the balls to tell her about it yestetday. And for 2 hours I spilled myself out to her, she didn't say a word or anything. For 24 hours I stayed up thinking about her, and what she'd say. Today I asked her friend and she refused to tell me anything they talked about. I suppose they figured it be funny to dangle the truth in front of me and just hit me with it and take it back, rather than just telling me the truth.

I found out today she's off guy's because she liked a guy, and it turned out that he liked some other girl, and it really chrushed her. What really pisses me off is that I pretty much have the same problem but shes to self-absorbed in her self-pity and whallow to see it. If shes so hurt, she should understand how I feel. The really shitty thing about everything is that I had to find this stuff from her friend. And the worst thing about this is I'm might be in love wiht her, and I told her, and she still hasn't even given me a fuckin' no or anything.

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No, Did it ever occur to you this might just be a reason to let you down "easy"? Don't do anything else. Wait and see if you get any signals. Just play it cool and DONT ACT AKWARD!!!

quote:Originally posted by Battousai:

Theres this girl I've been head over heels for, for the past 2 years. I finally got the balls to tell her about it yestetday. And for 2 hours I spilled myself out to her, she didn't say a word or anything. For 24 hours I stayed up thinking about her, and what she'd say. Today I asked her friend and she refused to tell me anything they talked about. I suppose they figured it be funny to dangle the truth in front of me and just hit me with it and take it back, rather than just telling me the truth.

I found out today she's off guy's because she liked a guy, and it turned out that he liked some other girl, and it really chrushed her. What really pisses me off is that I pretty much have the same problem but shes to self-absorbed in her self-pity and whallow to see it. If shes so hurt, she should understand how I feel. The really shitty thing about everything is that I had to find this stuff from her friend. And the worst thing about this is I'm might be in love wiht her, and I told her, and she still hasn't even given me a fuckin' no or anything.

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My old beehatch said that "she needed a break" so i left her. That is just pathetic on her part man.

i know the heel clicking stuff had nothing to do with anything. but it was kinda....meaningful or something. when i was talking to her for those hours i said who i wished that i could just click me heels together and and we could be together. And as far as letting me down easy i dont think not telling me a word or tlaking to me is easier than saying no.

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i was talking to my friend and i made up a little speech, im goin to try and catcher at the movies and telll her it it goes like this.

"marwa, i wish you had just told me yes or no. I'm sorry about the guy you liked but, we haev the same exact problem. I love everything about you ur smile ur eyes ur personality how u carry yourself everything about you, i could love ur demons and ur goods. I know i should have left it alone that night i told you, but i can't. your the only person ive thought about regularly for these 2 years. I guess no matter what you say im still going to try, and granted i dont blame you if you'd say no i wouldnt want to go out with me other, besides the fact that it would be weird to date myself. but i cant help it my heart and everyone around me is saying that i should just go for it and confront u. i know that guy hurt you, but i could never bring myself to harm you in anyway you should know that i mean it by everything i told you yesertday. im head o ver heels for you, and im sure to could learn quickly to feel the same for me.

i know if i stop now im goin to regret it, cause some guy will just snatch you up if i dont take this chance, and if one doesn thats not alrigth with me. cause if i dont do anything im goin to look back in woner and regret thinking to myself what could have been. I know we're just in high school and this migtht not even last that long, but i just want to try so one day i dont have to look back. if you dont tell me ill haev to give u an ultimatium.*from here im goin to just hug her and say* i just want you to be happy, and im willing to do anything to make you happy as long as im in your life. I guess even though i wasnt ur first choice you were still mine and i want to try and make this, us work."

my friend said its a good idea, and it will make her see tha im real and sincere.

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