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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2004-03-24, 01:46
Insomniac119 Insomniac119 is offline
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Default lost my virginity last night (feeling guilty)

well, what can i say. i was at a normal high school party. after getting wasted, i was really hitting on this one chick who wasn't resisting more than normal. "hey, maybe i'll get some" i thought.

so i was like, "you wanna go get alone?" and she said ok! so after all the formplay, she was like "i don't care if you don't have a condom, lets fuck!" so we did. don't worry, i pulled out before it was too late. what can you expect, i was drunk, she was drunk...

she seemed to like it more that i did, when i told her i was a virgin before then, she didn't believe me and said there was no way i haven't done it before. as for me, i lost my virginity so i can't complain. but i just don't think it was as all it's cracked up to be.

mabye because i was drunk, or it was because it was just some chick i didn't know, but i've been feeling a little guitly lately. maybe because there's a chance i coulda got her pregnent, or because i lost my virgintity to a some slut.

can anybody help me out? give me some advise? is sex better when you do it with somebody that you actually love, somebody that actually means something to you?

-rock on
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Old 2004-03-24, 01:50
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hmmm, i dont know i didnt feel that way when i lost it i was 14. I feel really guilty when i took 2 girls virginity. HMMMM you should be proud.

EDIT i cant have sex when im drunk. I just cant get it up.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 03-24-2004).]
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Old 2004-03-24, 01:53
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Hey I lost mine at 14 as well. On my 14th birthday actually.

Anyways, don't feel guilty because it's not like virginity is something most guys care about all that much.
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Old 2004-03-24, 01:56
Weed is a deed Weed is a deed is offline
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congrads....did you sleep with her?....
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Old 2004-03-24, 02:02
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dude i thought you died...
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Old 2004-03-24, 02:46
XxSoulCriminalxX XxSoulCriminalxX is offline
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haha! ive lost mine at 14 too. In fact just this weekend! i feel great lol
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Old 2004-03-24, 02:55
southflorida03 southflorida03 is offline
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everyone seems to loose their virginity in the spring time
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Old 2004-03-24, 02:56
Insomniac119 Insomniac119 is offline
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yes, i did sleep with my arm around her. it was ssssssooooooo cuuuuuuuttttttttte. </sarcasm>

i'm 16 so yeah, i'm not a loser anymore. i guess i'm gettin over the guilt thing.

and bushy, i almost had that problem but i managed to keep it just hard enough. i think the reson it wasn't so good was because it wasn't hard enough to really...you know.....

man, it' weird though. sometimes i can still feel her warm pussy. but when i try to think back on it, i can barely remeber, man i was fucken plastered.

-rock on
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Old 2004-03-24, 03:18
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quote:Originally posted by Insomniac119:





i lost my virginity so i can't complain. but i just don't think it was as all it's cracked up to be.





Agreed, sex is overrated.

I have heard this before,

"Dude! Oh my god! My girl wants to fuck me tonight! Its gonna be tight!"

But then after the sex, the same guy is like,

"well, ok...that was cool"

You think that it wasnt all its cracked up to be not because your drunk, but just in general. All the people who overrate it are the ones who never get any pussy anyway. Dont let it worry you.
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Old 2004-03-24, 03:18
Armed&Angry Armed&Angry is offline
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quote:Originally posted by bushy:



EDIT i cant have sex when im drunk. I just cant get it up.

[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 03-24-2004).]

See, I can't get it DOWN. "whiskey dick" has its drawbacks, to be sure.
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Old 2004-03-24, 03:40
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quote:Originally posted by paintballpunk:



Agreed, sex is overrated.

I have heard this before,

"Dude! Oh my god! My girl wants to fuck me tonight! Its gonna be tight!"

But then after the sex, the same guy is like,

"well, ok...that was cool"

You think that it wasnt all its cracked up to be not because your drunk, but just in general. All the people who overrate it are the ones who never get any pussy anyway. Dont let it worry you.





be that as it may, it still feels better to do it with someone you like/care about/have feelings for. do not have sex when you're drunk! especially not with someone random, you're just asking for a half memorable half numbed experience. which is pretty stupid.
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Old 2004-03-24, 05:43
Insomniac119 Insomniac119 is offline
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your telling me.....

-rock on
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Old 2004-03-24, 05:55
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quote:Originally posted by Insomniac119:

yes, i did sleep with my arm around her. it was ssssssooooooo cuuuuuuuttttttttte. </sarcasm>

i'm 16 so yeah, i'm not a loser anymore. i guess i'm gettin over the guilt thing.

and bushy, i almost had that problem but i managed to keep it just hard enough. i think the reson it wasn't so good was because it wasn't hard enough to really...you know.....

man, it' weird though. sometimes i can still feel her warm pussy. but when i try to think back on it, i can barely remeber, man i was fucken plastered.

-rock on





Yea, thats why i dont drink much, my last gf when i took her virginity i was half way, i mean it was hard enought to have sex, but she just couldnt do it for me. Thats when i thought I might have been gay, it turns out im not, my friend had to show me i wasnt. HEHEHEHE, one of the best times i have had yet.
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Old 2004-03-24, 06:39
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Default Re: lost my virginity last night (feeling guilty)

For future reference there can sometimes be cum in precum. Pulling out before you cum is extremely unreliable
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Old 2004-03-24, 06:45
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quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

For future reference there can sometimes be cum in precum. Pulling out before you cum is extremely unreliable

Correct. You'd be surprised how many guys get bitches pregnant by thinking that if they pull out early the bitch won't get pregnant.

You didn't use a condom? You fucking moron. I don't give a shit how old you or the bitch were, she could get pregnant, and you could get an STD. Nice one, Fuck-O!!!
 #16 
Old 2004-03-24, 06:58
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Yes, it is eternally better if you love the person you're with.

And when you're deflowering each other.
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Old 2004-03-24, 07:01
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Life is an STD, don't pass it on....
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Old 2004-03-24, 07:08
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Well, I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. Its rough, but i think it will be worth it if i wait until i am married. I'm sorry you're feeling guilty man, that's rough. Maybe you should like make a promise to yourself to not have sex again under similar circumstances (i.e. drunk,not in love, etc). If you can wait until you're married you won't regret it, but i would definitly recommend you don't have sex again if you're not sufficiently in love with the girl.

PS: you should never have sex without a condom again.

theBishop

[This message has been edited by theBishop (edited 03-24-2004).]
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Old 2004-03-24, 07:21
Tru_Souljer Tru_Souljer is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Yes, it is eternally better if you love the person you're with.

And when you're deflowering each other.



the man speaks the truth...

ts
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Old 2004-03-24, 10:27
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quote:Originally posted by Loc Dogg:

Nice one, Fuck-O!!!

Are you stealing my word?



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Theta is a fucko.
 #21 
Old 2004-03-24, 11:41
Infrared Infrared is offline
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elf, while sometimes I like you, your signature pisses me off. You're a fucko for whining, and in EVERY POST, about how Theta "is" a fucko. If he flamed you or locked a thread of yours, it's because you deserved it, not because he's some unfair prick.

Give it a rest, fucko.

If you've ever seen Goodfellas, you'd realize that you aren't as cute and creative as you think.
 #22 
Old 2004-03-24, 13:33
madhatter2k madhatter2k is offline
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Default Re: lost my virginity last night (feeling guilty)

sex is amazing, that's a fact.

sex without condoms is even better [obviously, this is only if you're staying with one partner, not with some random gal]. I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now and we still fuck each other's brains out.

as for your predicament dude, you were drunk. that's why you did it. would you have fucked a stranger if you were sober? chances are, no. when you're drunk you have a completely different mindset, so you can shift your blame onto your drunken person, and you'll be fine.
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Old 2004-03-24, 16:18
elite_dance elite_dance is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Insomniac119:

can anybody help me out? give me some advise? is sex better when you do it with somebody that you actually love, somebody that actually means something to you?

-rock on

Yes, I would have to say that sex is better if it's with someone that you truly care about... But that's my opinion. It's also better if there are two girls with you...

BTW, Goodfellas was a great movie... "You're one funny guy..."

[This message has been edited by elite_dance (edited 03-24-2004).]
 
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