Ok so everyone's lost out before and i hit my stride. I'm usually cool with this stuff and ok, but now its startin to get to me. I usually work out or baseball takes me away from whatever's troubling my mind, but lately i'm as good with relationships as a blind butcher's hand. Mind you the things that go wrong are usually she loses interest or didn't like me in the first place, but i keep thinking about them and now that there are more, i cant simply take my mind off it anymore. Any ideas on how i can "deal" with my problems?

stop idealizing her and try to see her for who she really is