Okay, during sex, I think I hurt my gf, I not completely convinced, but maybe.

We'll be going along, and usually, she doesn't spread her legs wide enough to go deep in, however when she does and I pound it I think I may be going too deep, and she makes an ambiguous sound, so I can't tell if it's pleasure or pain, maybe it's both. I'm 6'4 (height, not penis size)she's 5'8, that seems like a good match, physically. It's not like I'm 7' and she's 4'10.

Anywho, is there such a think as going too deep? Too hard maybe?

Chick advice would be good.

yes you can go too deep, because if you go too deep you'll hit the cervix and that's not something you're sposed to hit (don't even think of ramming it, any extra hard pressure there is kinda like WTF WAS THAT??)

kinda simple explanation i know, well, every girl is different and don't think that you can just go as deep as you want forever, there is an end you know. (look at female anatomy)

diagram (http://www.yieldireland.com/anatomy-female.gif)

[edit] main thing you have to do is talk to her about it and ask her if she's in any pain. she might not tell you because she's trying to make you happy and doesn't want to make it seem like she doesn't want to have sex with you or whatever. it's good you're concerned about her wellbeing, kudos to you.

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I agree you have to talk about this.

I mean I know I went out with a girl a while back who wanted myarm inside her and another who barly wanted my little finger.

My fiancee and I though, well she basically will tell me what she wants during the event and I will tell her what I like too. Sometimes she likes it very deep and fast and others she likes it just fast and on the clit. Im 6,2 tall and she is 5,3tall so I dont think height really matters. On top of that she is quite tight and Im a little broad but its all going to happen whatever way she and I are both happy with.

ewww OMG i jsut looked at that and realized i had my finger in my ex GFs cervix, the gross part is she lieked it. OMFG. i am going to wash my hands.

I'm really small (5"2) and my exhusband was rather tall, comparatively: 6"1, and when we had sex he'd often hit cervix and that is incredibly painful.

He also really liked to do it from behind and you can go deeper that way. Fucking hurt like a bitch.

Be more gentle, I suppose.

Cheers,

Lost

I dunno, bushy, the cervix opening is too small to accidentally get a tampon in there. It's unlikely you got your finger in there, unless you got your whole hand in her vagina and caused her some excruciating pain followed by copious bleeding. Ouch.

the question is, who the fuck cares? if shes got a problem, shell start bitching.

quote:Originally posted by LostCause:

I'm really small (5"2) and my exhusband was rather tall, comparatively: 6"1, and when we had sex he'd often hit cervix and that is incredibly painful.

He also really liked to do it from behind and you can go deeper that way. Fucking hurt like a bitch.

Be more gentle, I suppose.

Cheers,

Lost

why didnt you tell him to fuck off when he wanted to do it from behind, and you didn't? :-S

i know for a fact that it's possible to hit the cervix during sex. my girlfriend is a biochemist, so she knows a little bit about the human body, and she's experienced it with me.

but as was said, dude just talk to her! ask her if it's hurting and ask her what she wants you to do!

Cool, I'll turn up the communication, that kind of sucks though, for her.

There IS such a thing as too hard AND too deep. But yea I agree with what everyone is saying except for mrman... your an asshole im suprised you get any girls at all

and bushy... its almost impossible to stick anything IN the cervix