Ok my problem is that my material used to talk to girls is getting old, and most girls i chat with are not intrested, i would say that im losing my touch. And it's come at a bad time when i got like 5 girls lining up ,but it's just that i don't have the right thigs to say!

i need help i need something i need something to use to chat and keep a conversation going! because i hate those LONG ASS SILENCE PAUSES they seem like eternalty!!!

All you have to do is ask questions, but not yes or no questions. If you do this they can run their mouth all day long. For example: "So what do you think about_____?" or "How was your day?" Then search for the next subject that she wants to talk about. (She WILL bring the next one up.) Like if her answer to the "How was your day?" question was "I ran into my friend Kym today at the store.", she is wanting to talk about the next subject....Kym. So ask a question about Kym, and so on and so forth. Hope this helps you out some.

Do what I do and speak your mind.

If there's a silence you ask the first thing that comes to mind!

Whatever it is, it breaks the awkward silence...Trust me it works!

Talk about them, pretty much that's good unless they don't like talking about themselves, which is uncommon. Read a book man, the paper, learning interesting new thinkgs. You're life is definately not the only source you should base conversations on. Ask them their views on things.

Like,

"Would you rather walk barefoot in the sand, grass, or mud." and then follow up with a why, and "What if the mud was good for your skin would you roll around in it?" "You would!really? Cool, then you're more of a pig than I thought initially!!!"

That may have been a little far, but yeah, I hope that makes sense.

You don't need a plan to talk to girls. All you need is a keen eye. What you see in the present cannot be getting old. Don't think before you talk, simply talk. She will give you leads on what to say as the conversation goes on, but having an eye open works wonders for a starter.

BUT SOMETIMES I CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY, THIS GIRL IM TALKING TO IS LIKE A FUCKEN MAZE, SHE HARD TO READ i can tell if she playing with me or being serious. i've told her that and she responded with, "But you know when im serious and when im playing" she sooo different than any other girl i've ever met. She very hard to read, and i like it, thats why i can't get enough of her. she So pretty, she given me her number and stuff, but i haven't been able to call her cuz i have nothing to talk about

we have talked and i remember that she doesn't like that "Hi what are you doing?" talk she hates that she says it soo boring! now my question is how the fuck do i get around that? i recall that i have asked her those type of question but how do i get around that. i remember that we talked and stuff and we go really into it. However sometimes she looks like PMSing she looks like a mess and doesn't have the urge to chat.