Alright, I just want to know what (Men in particular) do to find out when it is alright to advance on a girl. I don't mean when to ask them to see one another but, in the sense of kissing a girl you just met at a party and you feel like kissing the hell out of her. Signs? Hints? Basically what to look for I suppose.

Just make sure she's drunk as fuck and you might have a chance

uh...you just know..it like feels right in your head....what goes goes..right?

quote:Originally posted by Zombie Arm:

Alright, I just want to know what (Men in particular) do to find out when it is alright to advance on a girl. I don't mean when to ask them to see one another but, in the sense of kissing a girl you just met at a party and you feel like kissing the hell out of her. Signs? Hints? Basically what to look for I suppose.

I would say any time you can get a 5-7+ second stare, and your witin reach.

If you're sitting there talking to the chick and you feel some sort of tension between you, you go in for a kiss.

Or you can do it my way and flirt like a mother fucker then take the first chance.

For example, last Christmas time I was chatting a girl up and thought it was going fine.

She held up some misteltoe to her male friend who said no...So without even thinking any further about it I said "Fair enough, my turn!" and kissed her.

We were together for about 3 months!

Still waiting for her to sort her shit out and want me back...Until then I will go out on the pull and have fun!

Depends on you and her.

Attraction levels between the two of you and how trusting she is. If there is attraction and trust you enough you could probably go anywhere with her.

If you don't know her and you end up going far, then you probably want to keep it that way. Girls who fuck random guys are no good.

Also, if you're just making out and you don't know where to go, take some control and initiative, sometime's the girl will if she senses you're a pansy. But go for it, creep your hands around (slowly) and see wheree she lets you go. Test out her borders if she has any, go near the breast, go to the waist line, poke a finger under her shirt under her pants. If she makes any motion for you to stop, don't go back there.

and if she gets pissy and annoying, stab

quote:Originally posted by Psychotogen:

I would say any time you can get a 5-7+ second stare, and your witin reach.

I got that before, and she had a boyfriend.

Usually I pay attention to over-friendliness and being clingy. Sure signs she'd do you.

Read and heed PSYCHO_8B's good advice!! There's always a creative way "in" where the girl won't really get mad at you. In fact, when you take advantage of an opportunity like PSCHO_8B did, it's a big turn on for her (would be for me for sure)!! After all, what he did was with confidence (we like that), and style. And she knew he "took a chance", put his ba_ls out there for her (we like that one too), and she's gonna be pretty nice, not mad, to him!!

PSYCHOTOGEN's 7 second rule is a good one too.....But (unlike what Psychotogen did), you should follow up with any girl who gives you a long look.....whether you think she is happy with a BF or not. Love, Venus.

The hard part is not knowing when, that is easy to spot. The hard part is having the confidence to seize the moment instead of second guessing yourself. The window of opportunity is often very small, so you have to act decisively.

It is easier to ask forgiveness than permission. If in doubt, do it.

Totally agreed!! Love, Venus.