Does it really hurt that bad? My friend told me that with her it hurt really bad becasue he wouldn't stop and he told her that it would get better. She was very sore for the next couple of days. I have heard other things like it didn't hurt as bad as most say. It just depends on the person right? Oh and another question.. what is the best position?

i lost mine when i was 13 it didnt hurt at all i think doggy style or riding is the bests position, but it's different for everyone and until you play around your now going to know what you like

quote:Originally posted by Someone21special:

[...] he wouldn't stop and he told her that it would get better [...]



Oldest trick in the book. If it hurts tell him to stop. If that doesn't help put a finger in his eye. That'll stop him for sure.

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It just depends on the person right?



If by "person" you mean your vaginal size or his penis size you're right.

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Oh and another question.. what is the best position?

Individual. Try'em out. What's in your fantasies?

In truth, yes it's probably going to hurt. You should really consider alot of foreplay and fingering before hand. Most girls would say being on top hurts less with a bigger guy...but if I were you, I would go with what the guy is more experienced with...On the top can also be hard for the girl, because you dont have any experience wtih the sex rythmn. I would stick with missionary to loose your virginity.

Yes it relates to the person a lot. Do you masturbate? Have you been fingered a lot? Is he small...all of them have effects like that.

Tell the guy he has to go slow, and if it starts to hurt he has to stop. If he wont stop and you dont want to poke him in the eye, start crying. Not just boo hoo crying but total whiney bitch crying. Most guys hate to make a girl cry.

It's going to have to happen some time, the pain will go away after the first couple times.

umm, liek 2 months ago i took a girls virginity, she was liek 5 2 and 100 lbs. i am a normal or if im really horny a little above normal. and we took it nice and slow, she was on top, and the next day she said she didnt hurt that much,( she was really tight too, like we had to work it in.

If the girl is nervous then it will hurt, but if the girl is relaxed then it won't hurt at all.

That's why it's good to make sure that this is the guy you want to lose your virginity too and you trust him and know that you're ready.

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

but if the girl is relaxed then it won't hurt at all.

Relaxed like passed-out drunk? You're a fucking retard.

Virginity advice from a virgin!

........ Why do people ask these questions?

Does it hurt when you take a dry broom stick and bludgeon it into your pussy really hard and really fast?

Then that is probably what is going to happen if the guy doesn't know what he is doing and you don't play around before hand and become wet.

Not to be perverted, but for a girl to be wet and ready for sex is the only way she is really going to enjoy it and actually be ready.

Also I don't reccomend "fingering" a virgin. If she is new to having a dick in her, I find it that saying you just want to "finger" her a bit will probably make her uneasy.

The same goes with asking a virgin to let you go down on her. She won't enjoy it because she is new to having someone explore her privates and will just make it miserable for the both of you.

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quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

........ Why do people ask these questions?

Does it hurt when you take a dry broom stick and bludgeon it into your pussy really hard and really fast?

Then that is probably what is going to happen if the guy doesn't know what he is doing and you don't play around before hand and become wet.

Not to be perverted, but for a girl to be wet and ready for sex is the only way she is really going to enjoy it and actually be ready.

Also I don't reccomend "fingering" a virgin. If she is new to having a dick in her, I find it that saying you just want to "finger" her a bit will probably make her uneasy.

The same goes with asking a virgin to let you go down on her. She won't enjoy it because she is new to having someone explore her privates and will just make it miserable for the both of you.

amen.try lots of cuddling /kissing first and the bloke needs to go real slow.

Many of the girls I have spoken to about post-sex pains said that they didn't get any.

Most of them said they really liked their first time.

Maybe it has something to do with being relaxed and having the guy know when to slow down or stop.

As for the position thing...If it's your first time I wouldn't suggest going for anything too elaborate.

Try the regular old "guy on top jack-hammering away" position!

All the best.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

being relaxed

See he knows!

Just cause I'm a virgin, doesn't mean I don't know stuff about sex.

stop being a pussy. a little pain never hurt anyone.

You know what Mrman or whatever the fuck you call yourself you need to stop being an asshole. You are a fucking jerk about almost everything and you need to fucking quit. Do you think you are more superior then a woman or something? Do you know what it fucking feels like? No I didn't think so. (I'm not trying to offend anyone and I am sorry if I did but he is being an idiot)

Flesh tears, pain ensues. Yeah, being too tight can cause problems, but if you want to save yourself a lot of agony (not the good kind), find a way to break your hymen before you have sex. If you've accidentally torn it in the past, fantastic, that saves you the trouble. If not, I'm sure you can find any number of devices with which to complete the task.

It ain't gonna tickle, but given the general disparity in first-time stories between girls that simply had sex and those that had a true cherry-popping, it appears to be worth it.

A piece of advice that my older sister gave me when I was 12, and I recently found to be true:

Once ya pop, ya can't stop.

It will definately hurt your first time, how much depending on how big he is and how :ahem: explored.. you've been..

I was on top my first time, and it didn't work out so well, but now it's my fav position

MAKE SURE HE USES A CONDOM!

quote:Originally posted by Someone21special:

You know what Mrman or whatever the fuck you call yourself you need to stop being an asshole. You are a fucking jerk about almost everything and you need to fucking quit. Do you think you are more superior then a woman or something? Do you know what it fucking feels like? No I didn't think so. (I'm not trying to offend anyone and I am sorry if I did but he is being an idiot)

stop making excuses for being a pussy. the first time i fucked i had blood running down my legs. then i went to football practice and got hit on those very same bloody knees and caked the bloody flesh up with dirt and grass. guess what? you get over it. i played a quarter and a half with a torn mcl, i played through a broken nose to pin a kid in a rather meaningless regular season wrestling match. ive been through 120 stitches, several concussions, fingers hanging by the skin, and more dislocations than i can remember. so dont tell me about pain, just quit being a bitch and get over it.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

stop making excuses for being a pussy. the first time i fucked i had blood running down my legs. then i went to football practice and got hit on those very same bloody knees and caked the bloody flesh up with dirt and grass. guess what? you get over it. i played a quarter and a half with a torn mcl, i played through a broken nose to pin a kid in a rather meaningless regular season wrestling match. ive been through 120 stitches, several concussions, fingers hanging by the skin, and more dislocations than i can remember. so dont tell me about pain, just quit being a bitch and get over it.

Wow. If only the rest of use were as good as you are on the internet... Well, I suppose we'll just have to idolize your for your obvious superiority.

quote:Originally posted by Gillibiabtiag:

Wow. If only the rest of use were as good as you are on the internet... Well, I suppose we'll just have to idolize your for your obvious superiority.

it has nothing to do with being "good" it has to do with not fucking whining about minor bullshit. if every cunt that was afraid of having a little pussy pain avoided the cause, your mom would have coat hangered your ass long before you ever started your bitching.

Mrman what is wrong with you, seriously? How would you like it if I yanked your d**k as hard as I could and made it do a couple of 180 turns. You really have no idea what that s**t feels like. Until you get a vagina and some guy shoves his d**k in your tight hole, keep your mouth shut. You're such an egocentric meathead! Shut the f**k up!

quote:Originally posted by jawa_mamma:

Mrman what is wrong with you, seriously? How would you like it if I yanked your d**k as hard as I could and made it do a couple of 180 turns. You really have no idea what that s**t feels like. Until you get a vagina and some guy shoves his d**k in your tight hole, keep your mouth shut. You're such an egocentric meathead! Shut the f**k up!

yea play martyr, go on. oh the poor little woman, she feels pain that is so ungodly horrible. shut the fuck up. some people act like a bitch when a little pain comes along, others deal with it because they would rather accomplish something despite the pain than punk out because of it. if yanking my cock is what it takes to enjoy a lifetime of fucking, then go right the fuck ahead. ill deal with temporary pain for that pay off.

Don't get me wrong I enjoy it now but my point is that you have no right to call it a "little pain." It hurt like hell, yeah. And I'm not bitchin I'm just lettin you know. Yopu don't know what it feels like until you go through it! Therefore, you, my son, need to keep your little ignorant comments to yourself. Unless, of course, you like making an ass of yourself...but then again I can tell you do. ASS!!

Reply if you'd like but I gotta go.

PEACE!!

quote:Originally posted by jawa_mamma:

Don't get me wrong I enjoy it now but my point is that you have no right to call it a "little pain." It hurt like hell, yeah. And I'm not bitchin I'm just lettin you know. Yopu don't know what it feels like until you go through it! Therefore, you, my son, need to keep your little ignorant comments to yourself. Unless, of course, you like making an ass of yourself...but then again I can tell you do. ASS!!

Reply if you'd like but I gotta go.

PEACE!!

it is minor pain dipshit. was it life threatening? no. did you pass out? doubtful. how about go into shock? id put money on that never happening. minor fucking pain asswipe. just because your some dumb bitch doesnt mean everyone buys your drama queen/pain pussy story.

Someone should shove something long and hard up your ass, mrman383; you are a fucking loser.

Back on topic, I haven't heard of many times where it didn't hurt for the first time. It all really depends on sizes and everything, and whether the guy knows what the hell he's doing and doesn't rush things. As long as everything is nice and (very) wet, there shouldn't be too many problems.

Well i am not a Baptist, and I am most certainly not going to give becoming a baptist advice. I just don't know enough

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

If he wont stop and you dont want to poke him in the eye, start crying. Not just boo hoo crying but total whiney bitch crying. Most guys hate to make a girl cry.



I can just picture that. Scarring some guy for life because you cried your eyes out when he though he was pleasing you. Heh, that would be great...