I was told yesterday by a friend of mine to call her today. Well I called 3 times with no answer and I'm beginning to think I'm coming off ass a creepy desperate jackass.

Any tips on not looking desperate? Not just on the phone but in person. Sorry, I know I'm being kinda vague here, but I am desperate. And I don't want it to show. Thanks.

Be calm....act normal....act as if it is a buddy you can't seem to get a holf of....if you start getting all wigged out and shit...it's gonna let her know your are insecure....and thats the last thing you want right?

Yeah. Truth be told, I am terrified of her. I can feel my heart furiosly beating up against my ribcage everytime I hear or see her.

And I appreciate your advice. It's a real abstract concept, and really really hard to reply seriously to something like this. Thank you.

Yea you called 3 times to many. Chicks don't dig desperate guys.

quote:Originally posted by cola:

Yea you called 3 times to many. Chicks don't dig desperate guys.

Yeah I know. But this girl doesn't have my number so if I want something done, the ball is my court.:shrug:

So well uh, would it be a good idea to give her my number next time I see he and tell her flat out if she's interested to call me? I dunno what to do.

Shouldn't you have left your number the first time you called? Then you wouldn't have had to call back.

Now it seems a bit desparate if you were to call back, so don't. Have your mutual friend give her your nunber then let her call if she wants to.

Does she know you called three times? If not, she's not likely to think you're a stalker. She won't even know you were trying to contact her.

Try again.

As long as you didn't leave 3 messages on her machine you'll be fine. Otherwise she wouldn't know it was you that was ringing.

quote:Originally posted by cola:

Yea you called 3 times to many. Chicks don't dig desperate guys.

No they dont.

If you want to get a womans attention Ignore her.It works.