Hey all. Its our second time to have sex. It was really awesome for her, it was good for me too but i still couldnt cum and i just gave up because i didnt want to do it any longer cuz it was a while. I think i just have to get use to condoms or something. Anyone know whats goin on? Thx

Going on a long time isn't supposed to be a bad thing.

That was funny. The kid sounds like he's 12 or something. But that scares me also.

You were probably just feeling a bit tense, try to relax a bit and enjoy yourself. Your girlfriend probably enjoys your stamina though!

it might mean you masterbate waaay too much. you lost all your sensibility on your penis from all the rough wacking. try to stop jacking off for about 1, or 2 weeks if you can, then you should be ok.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Going on a long time isn't supposed to be a bad thing.

thats very true indeed but he did say he couldn't cum....thats a problem men fear about as much as pre-mature ejaculation

It really isn't a bad thing, many people dream of having your "problem".

But I understand that you don't want to have to go on for too long, it takes stamina, and you have to build up stamina. Otherwise you're totally drained.

Yes, get used to condoms and everything, and RELAX! Many guys have long first times becuase of nerves. How long does it take you to cum when you masturbate? If you masturbate way too much, you could have lost some sensitivity as Miranda said. But if you don't masturbate at all or very little, it could lead to problems also.

Please tell me you at least pretended to cum. If not, your going to want to explain to your girlfriend that its your fault not hers, or she will feel bad. No matter how cool she seems about it, she probably feels inferior because she cant make you cum.

I don't like early sex, usually I am too tired.

going forever usually sucks. most times when i have really good sex it lasts under 10 minutes.

quote:Originally posted by elf:

That was funny. The kid sounds like he's 12 or something. But that scares me also.

yep its scary.how come every teenager who gets his first PC then discovers totse ....usually at the same time as he discovers blow 'n bints.....????

is this some kind of post modern yank rite of passage? my first bonk,my first bong and my first dumb thread

I have no idea, i have youre problem. My girlfriend cant make me come if she tried... I can make her cum over and over and over... Its not fair damnit!!!!!! i mean jesus fucking christ... Oh well she tries her best.

quote:Originally posted by soundsystem00:

Hey all. Its our second time to have sex. It was really awesome for her, it was good for me too but i still couldnt cum and i just gave up because i didnt want to do it any longer cuz it was a while. I think i just have to get use to condoms or something. Anyone know whats goin on? Thx

Fuck.. I envie you.. I still gotta train my body out it. But yeah, you were probably tense the first time.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

yep its scary.how come every teenager who gets his first PC then discovers totse ....usually at the same time as he discovers blow 'n bints.....????

is this some kind of post modern yank rite of passage? my first bonk,my first bong and my first dumb thread



I know I know, When i was 12 umm thats liek 6 years ago. I looked up sex stuff cause i wanted to know about it and was afraid to ask my parents.

I wound totse the same kinda way, I had just learned about fire and shit and i was looking on how to blow up shit, and tada totse. I have been here for over 4 years. under a lot of diffrent names something liek 8.