my girlfriend lately has been so hard to get in the mood for some action... today i got her a card that told her stuff we could do and one was kiss her lips till she quivers and she was telling me some girls like it and some dont.... but seams to me she didnt really like it tonite... plus earlier *same day* i threw her on clothes hamper and started kissing her neck and i drug her on the floor and almost got her into it and she was starting to breath heavy untill like 1min in she just stops and looks at me like she wants me to get off... so i got off and she went and watched tv..... ive tryed most everything she says she likes and i dont know how to please this frikin girl @_@

How lately are we talking, and for how long were things going well?

for the past 2months(ish) i dont think she was this up tight before that though but also i didnt mention before that shes always telling me she wants to do stuff and it never happens @_@ thats been driving me nuts too

[This message has been edited by elixirnova (edited 03-20-2004).]

Maybe you should stop trying. If the right moment arises, tell her if she wants x, y, or z, she'd better come and take it, because you keep getting the cold shoulder when you try and give it to her.

Maybe you should ask her what she likes...

If all fails then just do the same thing she does. Don't try to hug or kiss her, just act like you've completely forgot about all of that type of stuff. I bet she'll be all over you after a while of that.