Ok... I'm doin this for all my girls!!!

Alrighty.. tell me how fucked up this is..

I met this guy about 8 years ago..and about 2 years after we met, we dated for 3 years. But for the 3 other years we were off and on. The only reason we were off and on is because his bitch ass went off and "fell in love" with some other girl. Well every time she would drop him he came to me. And me, being stupidly in love, picked him right up and started all over...4 times may I add.

Finally I got tired of it and said fuck it and totally cut him off. I come to find out he totally snapped and tried to kill himself over this girl back on Jan. 9th. Of course since I still had feelings for him I was scared outta my mind! He was taken to the local hospital (not mental) but there they pumped his stomach and all that junk.

After that he stayed there for a week. He was so frustrated with that place. They treated him like he was crazy. And I know him and I know he isn't crazy! But the whole week I stayed with him. I brought him food every day and kept him company. The last day he was there he looked me in my eye, moved the hair outta my face and said "Baby, I Love you. Now I see who will always be here for me.. and who HAS been here for me. I've changed. I could never hurt you again. I'm Sorry." Of course.. I believed it.

Which Brings me to this day. We have been dating ever since then. But I've noticed he's been actin different..I confront him about it and he tells me he's tired of me bitching at him for little ass shit (which may i add he quit drinking the day he went into the hosp. and all he wanted was to never drink again. I found out he had been drinkin awhile back and of course I blew up at him cuz he wanted to keep his promise to himself sooo badly!) and that he hates little ass stupid girls( im 3 years younger).

To get to the point.. we argued for about 2 hours about this.. and he finally just laughed in my face and told me he couldn't believe I fell for his "sweet talk". Oh My Fucking God! I can't even explain how pissed I was. I did everything for this little boy! I loved him! I mean i even lost my virginity to him! So I had to ask him if he ever did love me... and he said.. well yeah! For a couple of weeks.. A COUPLE OF WEEKS OUT OF 8 YEARS!? Fuck this! Then he told me.. Well I had to make you feel good about yourself. I know what women want and I know what you want. Every girl is the same. Well lemme get this out in the open.. every fuckin GUY is the same!!! Oh yeah.. and come to find out about 10 minutes ago.. he had been cheating on me with 3 other girls. And one of them happen to be the one that he tried to kill himself over... I think He's mental!. But now I don't know where I stand. And I think i have developed trust issues.

I'm actually wanting to hear from the girls.. but hell! guys go ahead! Type away and tell me whatchya think.. Just how fucked up is this?

damn your pissed...

well, i just wanna say your fucking lucky because retarded losers like me can't even get a girl, so...

quote:Originally posted by Its steven:

damn your pissed...

well, i just wanna say your fucking lucky because retarded losers like me can't even get a girl, so...

Lol well... hopefully u don't treat your girls like he treated me If you do.. then ya know why u don't get girls lol

Don't generalize the whole male race because of one asshole. I've known girls with horrible personalities that would cheat on a guy in a second yet always talk about guys doing the stuff that they themselves do. Either way, everyone has bad traits and good traits which are unique to them.

Let this be a lesson to you, (like every other mistake you make in life), because now you can make better decisions about who you date.

Yup you're right this is a lesson. I mean.. I'm not trying to blow up in EVERY guys face about just one asshole. I just guess I have bad luck with the guys?

Don't get me wrong.. girls a MAJOR bitches! lol I myself can be one at times.. so I see where you're comin from!

ouch. if i were you i'd just get the fuck away from that guy. he's a loser and he's dragging you down. go find someone better, you definitly deserve it after all the shit he put you through.

good luck, whatever you do

~Scf

fucking lucky ass hole mutha fucking son of a bitch ass raping monkey humping whores

Apart from the fact the guy tried to kill himself and may have issues, i think his done pretty well for himself, having 3 girlfriends.

The truth is most guys want to fuck as many hot women as possible in their short life.

Women should learn to accept this, you are here to please us.

Maybe he thought you were getting a little fat and he wanted someone he was attracted to.

quote:Originally posted by luckyphill:

Maybe he thought you were getting a little fat and he wanted someone he was attracted to.

*GASP* *tear*

lol no I actually don't think so lol. I think He realized I was onto his game. And I could fuck his world up if I wanted to!

Well you picked a bad egg, not all blokes are like that. Meh, fuck him (er, not literally; well you already did but...). Btw, you should like hire an assassin to kill that fuck, that's some nasty shit, he's a prick.

EDIT: Hell, girl your on totse, fuck the assassin, the world of information is at your fingertips, so use it to mess with that asshole's mind, make him actually be a nutcase. Even though that's shitty, revenge is sweet.

[This message has been edited by Franz Ferdinand (edited 03-18-2004).]

Firstly, he is an asshole. You're, through no fault of your own, an idiot. You shoulden't have let him come back so many times, though I do know how thinking or even being in love can make you throw logic aside. It is all relitive here as a mutual mistake, though his being larger. You should fuck his life over .

Its true men are pigs.

Wrong forum

Right now I'm feeling pretty fucking fed up with guys myself lol

I even thought about becoming a lesbian for like 2 seconds, and then was like...nah!

Don't worry, you'll totally find someone awesome in like...a week.

A day...if you go out and actually look for one.

8 years, huh? Best thing you could do is this. Have a kid or two together, to bring you closer. You must have considered it, numerous times.

It won't work. It's been tried 77 million times. Don't let that stop your fool-girl ass

though.

Get some sex books. Learn/do it all. Prove to

him that you're the hottest twat, that ever walked. Ever so much hotter/better than his other twats. After all this time wasted on his sorry ass, it's way too painful to admit:

you were full of feces.

Trust your slut instincts.

I hate guys like that, every single one should be shot. A series of times. And then if there still alive you should torture the fucker. Cut off his dick and make him eat it.. I dunno, be creative. The worst about these situations is that you feel like you can't do a fucking thing about it.. And that sucks. But you need revenge. This guy fucked with your mind for 8 years.. He should be slaughterd or something. If you kill him don't let it be quick, try to make it slow and full of excruciating pain. Take all the other parts of his body that he used on the other girls and detach them, make sure he doesnt bleed to death, so he can eat those too. If he consumes your love with a empty heart he should consume himself with an empty stomach....

Will you bitches shut the fuck up? Totse is not a place for dumb white suburb bitches to yap about there dumbass naive relationships.

quote:Originally posted by NormlDrGonzo:

Will you bitches shut the fuck up? Totse is not a place for dumb white suburb bitches to yap about there dumbass naive relationships.

*ahem* in case you don't read the first thing on the main page of totse ...

quote:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances."

-- The First Amendment

(Part of the U.S. Bill of Rights -- Collect the whole set!)



ranting and complaining can be annoying but there's nothing that says you can't say what you think.

Angel,

you are obviously a caring and loving person, with lots to offer a guy, so do not let this awful person ruin your outlook on life. Not all of us are asses. You'll find the right guy for you, the guy who feels the same strength of affection for you as you do for him. Until then, smile when you think about your ex, hatred only works against you, just remember that you were the better person.

Damn someones pissed. Well id like to say its his fault but 8 years he didnt love oyu and 3 girls. I think your to blame.

( i know thats assholish, and i dont condone breaking a girls heart but 8 years and 3 girls) DAMN

Naive on your part girly; That's 8 years of your life that you'll never get back. He ever attempt suicide for you? So what made you think he cared more for you than the girl he -did- attempt suicide over? Because you where there? That made you his 'safety blanket'. Someone who'd always be there at the end of the night when his latest fuck went back home.

Assholes are assholes, can't do anything about that besides castrating him so he can't have asshole kids.

What he did was the exact same thing that millions of men and women do, and then there are the happy trusting people who stand by them till they either get fed up, or it's too late. That's really all there is to it.

He does not represent us all.

I've had similar shit pulled on me by women; well, "similar" insofar as they act as if they love me, but it's revealed later that they didn't, but pretended to, "so I didn't hurt you!". Funny how they never realize that that hurts so much worse.

My sympathies. And for what it's worth, if you ever dated me and I got to the point where I loved you, and said "I love you", I'd mean it with all my heart. Fuck insincerity.

Infrared

quote:Originally posted by greenlantern13:

Angel,

you are obviously a caring and loving person, with lots to offer a guy, so do not let this awful person ruin your outlook on life. Not all of us are asses. You'll find the right guy for you, the guy who feels the same strength of affection for you as you do for him. Until then, smile when you think about your ex, hatred only works against you, just remember that you were the better person.

IM SMILING!!! lol

If you let him do that to you for eight years, it's your fault.

And he can fuck around if he damned well wants. Get over yourself.

quote:Originally posted by logical-not:

If you let him do that to you for eight years, it's your fault.

And he can fuck around if he damned well wants. Get over yourself.

Ok... no see... you're missing the WHOLE point.

I didn't put up with him for 8 years.. if you would read better i said I've KNOWN him for 8 years. Dated him for 3. And these 3 years we DID date.. uh.. this is be4 he even met that one hooker, yeah back when I thought he was a real "guy guy". Not an asshole. This is back when he was reallllly fake. And trust me... me being young and foolish.. i did fall for it. And I fell hard!

So maybe it was alllll my fault. HA NOT! Maybe you should read it again. It's called getting FOOLED! It's not all my fault.. and i know it's not. I thought it was.. but it wasn't. ANY girl would've fallen for him just like i did. Only people like you,that say "Get over yourself.." Have never been in love.........

quote:Originally posted by AngelOffDuty420:

IM SMILING!!! lol



good

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:



My sympathies. And for what it's worth, if you ever dated me and I got to the point where I loved you, and said "I love you", I'd mean it with all my heart. Fuck insincerity.

Infrared

I think I am falling in love with you! Damn Infra why can't all guys be as sweet as you?

AngelOffDuty420: It's a lesson hard learned but he doesn't deserve ya and you don't deserve his shit. Tomorrow is another day though and that is the way you need to think of it as. Tomorrow he won't have you to take care of him and somewhere along the road he will regret it. Tomorrow you can meet new people, tomorrow you can take time for yourself, tomorrow you can do what you want without him bringing you down. If it took three years to figure it out then say to yourself at least it wasn't four years. It could always be worse.

[This message has been edited by JesusTookMyBike123 (edited 03-18-2004).]

Just out of curiousity, how old are you both?



quote:Originally posted by AngelOffDuty420:

But now I don't know where I stand. And I think i have developed trust issues.

I'm actually wanting to hear from the girls..

I'll tell you where you stand with him. Nowhere. I know it's blunt, and probably not what you'd like to hear. Get over it, and get over him.

3 years is a long time to be with somebody. In all honesty, and as evidenced by the way he cheated on you... he probably just got tired of you. It happens all of the time.

I'm assuming by the way that you write you're still young. So you'll be able to find somebody else. It hurts right now, but you'll get passed it.

Don't think that you wasted your time... because you didn't. Think about all of the things you got out of your relationship. And don't say that there aren't any, because if you stayed with him for 3 years and let him come back time and time again then there had to have been something good about him.

Also, it's probably best if you don't try to stay friends with him. You'll just end up getting hurt more.

Soz 2 hear bout ur bf! I'm a guy which probably means this won't make any sense to u. We aren't all stuck up pricks, i look after my gf's and i'd never cheat. If i wanted another girl instead i'd finish with one first. I know thats harsh but it's better then stringing some1 along. The only thing i can say is that you really need a new guy that'll treat you right (fair). It'll take ur mind of the prick for a while and ur feel much better around other guys. Soz if i've got da wrong impression

quote:Originally posted by JesusTookMyBike123:

AngelOffDuty420: It's a lesson hard learned but he doesn't deserve ya and you don't deserve his shit...... It could always be worse.



Thank God it could be worse

PS::::: Damn... I'm fallin in love with that guy too! lol jk *mwah for the sweetness!*